CAUTION ! CAUTION ! CAUTION! DO NOT EMBRACE YOUR ANGER! DANGER! DANGER! DANGER!
Angry people are asking for trouble! Anger only begets MORE anger!
No one will stand with you against the Alpha if you allow your anger to lead your actions!
No one will stand with you against the alpha anyway... because change is futile!
Alpha males subjugate us all....this will never change.
There are more of us than there are of the Alpha males. It's time we stood together. Some of us will be angry women. Some of us will be angry young black men. Some of us will be peace loving hippies. But the problem is that the vast majority of people are controlling their anger by not allowing themselves to feel it because they believe that we are powerless, and to feel the anger and be unable to channel it into change would overwhelm them.
So, they ignore as much of the bullshit that the alpha males...and lets do mention those women who are striving to dominate others as well, prime example Hillary Clinton. There are many women who are using social tactics to manipulate their employees and their peers so they can get ahead and to hell with the consequences. Look at Carly Fiorina who claimed to have seen an abortion video that didn't exist and then takes no responsibility for the effect her claim had on an unstable gun owner in Colorado.
We live in a world where the oligarchy has taken over the American government and is using our vast military to attack countries for their oil and to force them into a centralized banking system. The oligarchy meets every 3 years to pick the candidate they want for our president, and to discuss other laws and treaties they want governments all around the world to embrace so they can farm people into their subservient jobs.
Why are we buying new phones every 2 years? Why are electronics and other items, cars even, disposable nowadays? Why are all the repair jobs practically obsolete? Why are we not allowed to save our own SEEDS? They're centralizing our FOOD supply! So they can control WHO gets it, who deserves to eat, and how much MONEY they will have to pay for it. The middle classes will pay taxes to help the poor afford food, while the oligarchy focuses on controlling everything about our lives by centralizing banking, food, etc... America is their military might, China and other countries are their source of labor. The TPP allows corporations to sue governments who try to enforce environmental protections that interfere with the corporations profit margins. I mean, WE NEED TO BE OUTRAGED. A few hundred people are setting the boundaries of the lives of 7 billion people, all the fish in the sea, and our planet's continued existence!
We have been EMBRACING, narcissistic leaders who seek to control the narrative - our very perspectives! THESE ARE THE ALPHA MALES. I mean, as a CULTURE, we're supporting those people who are the loudest, who speak first and sound confident. We tell our children that we don't allow bullying in school, but then we swarm to Donald TRUMP!! Our schools reward bullies and sociopaths above the quiet, introverted kids. While many moral, upstanding citizens contemplate what we SHOULD do, narcissistic self-obsessed people are out there grabbing all they can get and manipulating themselves into untouchable positions of power.
When we get angry and mean to incite anger in others to effect change, this is the response we get...
Alpha males subjugate us all....this will never change.
It will never change because the empaths among us see what the sociopaths are doing and the apaths obstinately choose confusion over confrontation. The majority of people find a way to be content with the way things are, understanding that someone has to be in charge, they give that control over to the sociopaths because it's easier, not because the sociopaths are trustworthy of the responsibility for our planet and our lives. The empaths see what is happening and raise the alarm, but are met with a majority of people who just won't stand up against injustice as long as they can find a way for themselves to be content ... even if their contentedness is in having someone else to blame for what's wrong. At least they don't have to blame themselves since they didn't do anything...but I say, they are to blame because THEY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.
But, you're right. It's always going to be this way. We could never increase funding to education and health systems worldwide. We couldn't undergo a major shift in society where we, as a population, recognize that understanding our physical world better leads us to make better decisions in life. We couldn't realize that the oligarchy already knows that to control us, they need to keep us dumb and superstitious. If we believe we have an eternal life waiting for us when we die, then we won't be OUTRAGED that they're ruining the only lives that we know for sure we have. We won't rise up and prod our fellow apaths into standing up against the domineering class, insisting on a democratic process that is supported by an educated population.
Think this has nothing to do with the OP? Who said she was a good Christian wife for a time in her life? This is all related to our culture of patriarchy. It is the patriarchy that cultivates the alpha. As human beings, we could choose to praise qualities of sharing and caring, rather than qualities of dominance and control...and we pretend to praise sharing and caring...when in fact, those who dominate and control set the boundaries of what we're allowed to share and care about! Anger may be our only savior at this point! Where do you think rebellion comes from? And, the OP is rebelling against the patriarchy! She's rejecting men and the idea that she should in many ways be subservient in our society...not only to men but to married women! Yes, the pressures to be subservient have weakened in recent decades, but the support systems for graduating from high school...getting married or going to college...getting married and getting a job or staying home with a child...raising a family and buying buying buying crap that entertains you and your children...going into debt for home, car, lifestyle...paying out the nose for college for your child...etc... the path is CLEAR. The path is SMOOTH. The path is SET. And, it isn't changed just because your husband beats you. People expect you to still seek this lifestyle...family...career...debt...keeping up with the Jones's. So, get rid of that husband if you must...but find a new one...and keep to the path.
The path isn't working because the path is wrong.
How can people see that the path is wrong if they're all indoctrinated into these Abrahamic religions? Well, some people figure it out because things go so wrong that they cannot follow that path anymore. It takes a lot to throw us off the path. Why? Because we are social people. Check out this video.
Brain games - Social conformity What we do doesn't always make sense, it's not always good for us, it's not something we need to continue doing...but if we refuse to STOP and THINK about it, if we refuse to listen to the people that it is hurting because it isn't hurting us, then we are not CIVILIZED people. Animals are social creatures too. To be civilized is to bring (a place or people) to a stage of social, cultural, and moral development considered to be more advanced.
Anger is useful when it keeps us from returning to the well-worn path that society is pressuring us to walk. Anger helps people stop what they're doing long enough to look up and around so they can answer the question "Why am I doing that?" and "Why should I do that?" and "What could I do instead?"
We DO need more angry women. We need more women who look up from the path and answer the question "What could I do instead?" because they will be our leaders. They will lead us into an era when the alpha male is quelled in childhood. When the alpha is taught to quiet that inner hunger for power because it will only lead them to despair in a world dominated by a strong democratic society that values sustainability above all. Never going to happen? Then we are headed toward extinction. Do you want to be right, or do you want to get angry and try to change our culture? I can totally get trying and failing, but never even trying? No. I'm done with that. I was beaten down, and I gave up for a long time, but I'm angry now...and I am talking to a lot of people about my anger. It's time we turned this society around and put our resources where our priorities are. CEOs should not be the highest paid people in our society when Farmers, Teachers, Medical personnel, Police and Fire officials, etc provide the services we need to sustain human life on earth until the galaxies collide.