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[anthony]

Panda, I don't have to stop anything, this is online... you are seriously naive to be thinking you have privacy rights on any public area of the www. If you can join it and access content, still no real privacy.

Why do people honestly struggle so much with being honest with themselves nowadays? People are constantly trying to blame others for their own doings.

 

[PandaBear12212]

He doesn't just find it interesting or to relate. He just finds a sick pleasure in knowing everyone else's "dirty laundry".

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Not sure what makes the guy creepy, maybe he just googled your username and found the forum? Google is a big world and your username has been used a lot.

 

[PandaBear12212]

I never said I had privacy rights to anything. Don't put words in my mouth.

 

[anthony]

He has that right though... and that is not his fault, because he didn't put your personal thoughts online. You did!

 

[anthony]

I'm not trying to upset you or any other such thing either panda... purely stating the truth of the situation from my view.

I am responsible for putting anything I do so online... just as I am responsible for writing this post now. That is my fault if it is read or used against me, by anyone who can access the Internet. I cannot blame the reader, I am at fault.

 

[PandaBear12212]

No because my name is not on here, it's a user name. There's no way he just happened upon me.

 

[PandaBear12212]

I never denied responsibility for my content. But he is at fault for his sick intentions.

 

[anthony]

I'm not saying he didn't do something wrong to find you... do you use this name elsewhere? Do you sit in a library on this site, where he could see the site name? You use yourself as an image... not exactly hard if he knows you.

 

[PandaBear12212]

No, I don't use this name elsewhere and I only use my personal laptop. And if he really went through the trouble of Google searching my photo that's pretty stalker-ish

 

[anthony]

If he stated he likes to read others content to make himself feel better... then is there anything wrong with that? Not sure that is a sick intention. I read stuff online that makes me feel better at times, but last time I checked, I'm not some sick weirdo... pretty sure my wife wouldn't call me some sick weirdo either. We all have some self esteem / complex issues. How old is he? If young... then it is not uncommon.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

I'm guessing that somehow he found out you are here. Perhaps your picture? Maybe you use the same username elsewhere? Has he ever looked over your shoulder and seen you logged on?

I'll say it! That guy is a TOTAL creeper AND a loser. No, there is no expectation of privacy online, but he is following you SPECIFICALLY and if he were doing it in person it would be called stalking! Yes, I've been there, and I've been followed online and had my activity checked up on. I'm not dumb. I know there is no privacy, but at the same time it's totally creepy for some loser to check up on his "friends" just so he can feel better about himself. I bet he is woefully inadequate if you know what I mean and he does this so he can feel better about himself. He's pathetic if he needs to stalk others who are dealing with serious issues in order to get an ego boost.