General Too much time away

[MariJane]

My husband has PTSD. For the last month, to month and a half he has been staying away from the house a lot. For a while he would go for long drives. Now he says he’s meeting friends at a bar. But doesn’t come home until after I’m asleep. He says he’s staying away, trying to keep his bad attitude away from me. I’m afraid to tell him how I really feel about all the time away, but I’m afraid to trigger him and make things worse. I walk on eggshells everyday

 

[Friday]

It’s a brutal place to be in.

Where what you have? SUCKS.
But? The alternative is WORSE.

So? What can you do for you? What are you doing for you? What do you like/love or are excited/relaxed by? Are you doing them? Or doubling down on what inspires/excites/strengthens/delights… you?

 

[Sweetpea76]

I’m sorry you’re going through this. The eggshells suck. The avoidance sucks worse.

 

[MariJane]

It’s a brutal place to be in.

Where what you have? SUCKS.
But? The alternative is WORSE.

So? What can you do for you? What are you doing for you? What do you like/love or are excited/relaxed by? Are you doing them? Or doubling down on what inspires/excites/strengthens/delights… you?

Currently I’m just working, sleeping, repeat.