@Rosebud very sorry what I said about too many calls and advice asking made you cringe! Don’t worry, when I was younger I did plenty of both - but am at a different stage now....
As to the INFJ thing, that sounds so complicated!
in my world (which is pretty tiny) friendships are built on mutual respect and affection, and usually take quite a long time to develop to ones of mutual trust.
I wouldn’t want to be wooed by a friend, I like things to be real
But again, when I was younger I did kind of walk through the hallway of mirrors, not knowing what was real or not. Got hurt a lot. That’s prob why I’m so black and white now...
Anyway, sorry I made you cringe
Oops - forgot to say, when you wonder what the other woman gets out of it, I have to say in my situation I really didn’t think it had much to do with me! I liked her and didn’t want to hurt her, but didn’t really understand the intensity.
As to the INFJ thing, that sounds so complicated!
in my world (which is pretty tiny) friendships are built on mutual respect and affection, and usually take quite a long time to develop to ones of mutual trust.
I wouldn’t want to be wooed by a friend, I like things to be real
But again, when I was younger I did kind of walk through the hallway of mirrors, not knowing what was real or not. Got hurt a lot. That’s prob why I’m so black and white now...
Anyway, sorry I made you cringe
Oops - forgot to say, when you wonder what the other woman gets out of it, I have to say in my situation I really didn’t think it had much to do with me! I liked her and didn’t want to hurt her, but didn’t really understand the intensity.
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