Vultures

[Casey_03]

@Friday @joeylittle You guys are absolutely right. I was actually planning on just moving up there, but then this aunt called at the very moment I was moving and I decided to ask her as a courtesy ( I suppose because she is just bossy and domineering; I didn't want to inadvertently start conflict with her, so tried to be polite). I didn't expect her to say no. I was shocked. But that is my mistake here -- trying to be decent and polite to people who are not giving me the same courtesy.

I know I will inevitably have to put my foot down and be a bit of a bitch, I have just been trying to avoid any conflict. It's so crappy to be surrounded by conflict when i just want to nurse my baby and have peace. but i think you all are right and i should just move up there now. Maybe i'll just say i misunderstood her when she said no. ha. yes, i'll act stupid.

 

[scout86]

I know I will inevitably have to put my foot down and be a bit of a bitch,

Just because words affect how we think about things and that's something that matters, you can be assertive without being a bitch. OTHER PEOPLE might decide to label you as that, but that doesn't mean they'd be accurate.

 

[FireSign8]

Be sure to install a good lock on your bedroom door so the new people don't take your stuff too. You did your best & now the rest is up to your Grandmother. Her house & she will deal with those who disrespect it as well as you. Hang in as long as you can, then get out as soon as you can. No good ever happens when greed sets in. You have memories these other people will never have. Be proud you cared for the woman who made your life possible. Then get yourself & child away from those who show disrespect for the dead & their final wishes!

 

[katz]

Coming to this late... ^^^ This ^^^

Why does your aunt -who doesn't live there- get to decide who stays...

That's a great idea! My vote is also to just "go ahead" and move to the room you want. You have been living there and you must look out for you and your baby.
Think about it--what is the worst they can do--ask you to move back to your old room? And definetly change the password on the wifi-every day if necessary, since your paying for it.