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Dark.Green.Feathers

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I have nightmares of being sexually assaulted, sometimes they match what happened, sometimes they're different. Multiple times I've been forced to have an orgasm in my nightmares and wake up having ejaculated in real life, it is frightening and makes me feel sick. Does anyone else have this? What does it mean? Searching it up hasn't been useful.
 
I've never personally had this, but I can tell you that it is not uncommon. Nightmares are a classic PTSD symptom, so I don't think there's much meaning there beyond it being more or less a sleep flashback. It's really one of the most unpleasant symptoms, I think.

Are you doing any therapy right now?
 
I've never personally had this, but I can tell you that it is not uncommon. Nightmares are a classic PTSD symptom, so I don't think there's much meaning there beyond it being more or less a sleep flashback. It's really one of the most unpleasant symptoms, I think.

Are you doing any therapy right now?
I have them a lot, not always like this but the nightmares are regular, and very real feeling. I also feel things during the day, hands on me, groping.

I am not, no.
 
The groping hands sounds like a flashback to me. Any body sense can have a flashback - I had taste flashbacks a few times. Not fun. Makes sense if you're overwhelmed that you'd be having flashbacks everywhere. Are you feeling really stressed in your everyday life?

I would really recommend that you try to start looking for an appropriate trauma therapist if possible, especially since your symptoms are causing you so much distress.
 
Sorry man... being a bloke you have something called (medically) a "cascade"... where as soon as ONE organ is tripped ... they ALL function as designed.

The prostate is the crux... once the prostrate is stimulated? Even DEAD you would stil have an orgasm. It's called "milking the prostate". It sets off an UNSTOPPABLE biochemical reaction. Literally. Not even death can stop it. For apx 36 hours. Post death. Once those Chems trip your prostrate? Ejact.

Orgasm (male AND female) as well as various levels of 'arousal' is NORMAL with sexual assault. Self preservation, those are DELICATE tissues. Zero lube resulting in tearing resulting in death level of survival.

Yes. It can be a headf*ck LATER, thanks to certain religionsbut? HOPEFULLY that's not you.With little to no forgiveness & empathy & understanding.

An orgasm? Does NOT mean you "liked" it. It means you had a healthy body.
 
The groping hands sounds like a flashback to me. Any body sense can have a flashback - I had taste flashbacks a few times. Not fun. Makes sense if you're overwhelmed that you'd be having flashbacks everywhere. Are you feeling really stressed in your everyday life?

I would really recommend that you try to start looking for an appropriate trauma therapist if possible, especially since your symptoms are causing you so much distress.
I didn't know that. A taste flashback sounds hard.
Some things are better than before but other things aren't. The fear of my immediate family is a lot less. Other people are worse. I feel in danger a lot.
I moved back in with them when they found out, a lot of it is harder now it's over, for some reason.

I don't know where to start. I'd need someone who can work with my disabilities. And I don't want to be alone with someone I don't know.

Sorry man... being a bloke you have something called (medically) a "cascade"... where as soon as ONE organ is tripped ... they ALL function as designed.

The prostate is the crux... once the prostrate is stimulated? Even DEAD you would stil have an orgasm. It's called "milking the prostate". It sets off an UNSTOPPABLE biochemical reaction. Literally. Not even death can stop it. For apx 36 hours. Post death. Once those Chems trip your prostrate? Ejact.

Orgasm (male AND female) as well as various levels of 'arousal' is NORMAL with sexual assault. Self preservation, those are DELICATE tissues. Zero lube resulting in tearing resulting in death level of survival.

Yes. It can be a headf*ck LATER, thanks to certain religionsbut? HOPEFULLY that's not you.With little to no forgiveness & empathy & understanding.

An orgasm? Does NOT mean you "liked" it. It means you had a healthy body.
Thank you. I think she liked to force it from me. She didn't always use me, sometimes she just touched until I had one.
 
I have nightmares of being sexually assaulted, sometimes they match what happened, sometimes they're different. Multiple times I've been forced to have an orgasm in my nightmares and wake up having ejaculated in real life, it is frightening and makes me feel sick. Does anyone else have this? What does it mean? Searching it up hasn't been useful.
Your posts are so relatable to me maybe because I have a history of sexual assault too. I had this happen a few nights ago actually. It was actually a weird mixture of the face of an ex-friend and the body of a guy I wish I never dated. It triggers the hell out me when I wake up. Almost feels like my brain is torturing me with memories of past people.

I’m not sure yet why it happens. But others saying it’s a flashback sounds about right since the feelings and sensations are similar to past experiences.
 
Your posts are so relatable to me maybe because I have a history of sexual assault too. I had this happen a few nights ago actually. It was actually a weird mixture of the face of an ex-friend and the body of a guy I wish I never dated. It triggers the hell out me when I wake up. Almost feels like my brain is torturing me with memories of past people.

I’m not sure yet why it happens. But others saying it’s a flashback sounds about right since the feelings and sensations are similar to past experiences.
I’m sorry that happened, I get people I know who didn’t assault me too.

I think it just can’t cope and the feelings or memories that can’t be put away come out in the dreams, even if it’s not exactly the same in the dream. Or it is the stress and it has to purge out the feeling somehow.
It’s not nice. It all stays on the surface ready to jump out instead of sinking and settling like the rest of things.

Thanks for replying
 
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