What Are You Feeling Today? Not Thinking, Rather Feeling! Can You Identify Yours?

[Sandra]

I've known this person online about 10 years now.

I had the same thing too Saphy by another net friend years ago when he asked to see my pic. So I sent it to him and he also said a nasty remark.

 

[Saphy]

So I sent it to him and he also said a nasty remark.

Well it wasn't really like that, in fact I was just in a random video chat with 11 other people on cam. I felt so singled out. I look fine generally, in fact pretty good by most guys' standards... but I just dont have that self-confidence and I wish I did. Here are some pictures of me:



Of course though, that isn't how I look every second of the day, but normally pretty close to it. So I just don't know why someone could have called me ugly like that and upset me so much.

 

[Marie E.]

Saphy, sorry to hear somebody call you the awful word ugly!! *Hugs* Glad you know who you are atleast!

 

[Sandra]

Always consider where the comment comes from. It's usually a person that has issues themselves.

And you are not ugly.

 

[Marie E.]

saphy . . . I wish I didn't have the confidence I do, (sometimes I am down alot though) it is just that I hate being hit on alot by even the maintenance guy lmao!! But, than I wouldn't have the hot cop I am with now. I have been friends with him and now . . . I'm happy we finally got together and I am happy now!!!!

 

[Marie E.]

Always consider where the comment comes from. It's usually a person that has issues themselves.

And you are not ugly.

I would have to agree with Sandra on this Saphy, you are not ugly. And with the person could be insecure. I don't like to judge people much btw. . .

 

[Saphy]

saphy . . . I'm happy we finally got together and I am happy now!!!!

Thank you so much. Yeah, I get hit on a lot but because of my confidence I don't believe them. So then I'm cold/insulted... i don't take compliments well like people dont take criticism well. I don't find compliments to be modest.

 

[Iam]

Yep Saphy, you are quite the opposite of ugly! Whoever said that was taking pot shots and probably projecting what they feel about themselves onto you. You are very beautiful and sexy (I am a hetro woman so don't take that wrong!)

 

[Marie E.]

Um Saphy, I think you made a mistake with the replying to my post. No offense! (I look gay kinda) Don't take me wrong please, as I think you are a very nice lady!

 

[goingonhope]

I went out tonight and where I went just riled me all the more.

I feel wired and uncomfortable.
I feel overwhelmed. And, I feel alone and afraid.

 

[Sandra]

Hugs for Goingonhope.

 

[Saphy]

You are very beautiful and sexy (I am a hetro woman so don't take that wrong!)

Haha I won't... heh thank you. That does mean a lot to me that other people think I am pretty since it's hard to see myself as that when I have the feelings I do about myself.