I came here and am staying here later than usual.
For some reason things got a bit prickly this morning with my husband so instead of allowing it to elevate I asked that "please not do this right now". :) Wow, I set a boundary! I just realized this. Huh, I'm not feeling well and we disagreed about how to deal with insect control (being in Florida it's a issue, believe me) so instead of continuing I bowed out pleasantly when I felt myself unable to go further.