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I haven't... Not for a very long time. However, what I used to do was always some kind of combo of active/competition+hedonism, or people+alone.
Examples would be surfing+reading on the beach, crew+hot showers & watching movies in bed, horseback riding+swimming, snowboarding+hottub. Always something with adrenaline ramped up, and then languid relax down. Without the up part, the down part isn't relaxing. And without the down part, the up part stops being fun after awhile and turns into plodding work. I need the divergence between the two paired activities to bliss out.
Similarly... Being by me'self isn't relaxing, unless I've just been with people, prior. And being with people isn't relaxing, unless I've got the time by myself book ending. Have both, though? Blissed out, again.
Examples would be surfing+reading on the beach, crew+hot showers & watching movies in bed, horseback riding+swimming, snowboarding+hottub. Always something with adrenaline ramped up, and then languid relax down. Without the up part, the down part isn't relaxing. And without the down part, the up part stops being fun after awhile and turns into plodding work. I need the divergence between the two paired activities to bliss out.
Similarly... Being by me'self isn't relaxing, unless I've just been with people, prior. And being with people isn't relaxing, unless I've got the time by myself book ending. Have both, though? Blissed out, again.
