What Do You Owe Yourself?

[Ronin]

Future.

 

[ms spock]

Self Compassion and some time!

 

[Deleted member 42957]

To slow down and be myself. To give my opinion. To allow myself to get upset but I can't. To believe in me. To ask questions even if they are weird.

 

[420kitty]

Patience.

 

[Tornadic Thoughts]

• Patience...and lots of it.
  
• Ongoing raised awareness of the painful long and short-term consequences of allowing my past to consume me based on what I and others close to me choose to consume...those energies of all that ongoing abuse, neglect, and exploitation take quite a while to fade out, especially after decades of blindly consuming them...only to have it shoved back into my face around every turn in some form or another.
  
• More internal and external activity purposely geared towards overall wellness, both for self and other living and feeling beings within my abilities.
• The time and space to healthily hold on to the clear vision/memories of how f*cking good actual wellness feels compared to how "good" the very brief and ill-perceived notion of "treating" myself feels, especially once the flavors of my favorite addictions leave my taste bud region and start breaking down my innards.
• A refresher course on how nothing tastes as good as good health feels.

 

[Anrish]

Tissues.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

To allow the grief process to go at its own pace with all of the ebbs and flows.

 

[Deleted member 29920]

New opportunities, FUN!, Forgiveness, safety, comfort

 

[Let It Be]

A stress-free life or at least to be observant of myself and to do lots of self-care when life hits me and my anxiety peaks.

 

[ninja]

Just space

 

[Linzee]

Self esteem, self love, a break and some counselling.

 

[ms spock]

The biggest high five! I went despite extreme anxiety and fear, and I stayed and I did it! I did it well!