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Can you please clarify if your mean 'boyfriend' or 'best friend' here so I can change it in your post? Use of some abbreviations can be confusing because some have many meanings.
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Can you please clarify if your mean 'boyfriend' or 'best friend' here so I can change it in your post? Use of some abbreviations can be confusing because some have many meanings.
Thanks.
That is amazing, Don't Trip. I mean truly. Fortunatly (sp?) my husband runs the technical department at his chemical analysis lab and knows allllll about those remote logging-in thingies. You can see I am also HUGELY conversant with all technology by my wording, ' thingy ' being in the dictionary under ' Computer 101 Terms '. My husband has remote programs on our computers anyway because he frequently has to do this to access back and forth from work. It's a little hysterical walking through the room and seeing the mouse moving, but he always leaves me a message before logging off, " Hi Baby, it's me, Love Ya! ". Anyway, yes, it was very, very wierd to read someone else's incomprehensible experience with one of these people, gosh. I really will leave the diagnosis to others, since truly do not know except to say there is something plain, old wrong here to the point where I have to make sure my smoke detectors work in all the rooms and I'm starting to say things like " If anything happens to me... ".
Having lived through all this once, gosh, it does refine your instincts a LOT. Mine have been shrieking. Also fortunately no matter how many folks they manage to discredit me to, there are a few they are clueless about, with whom I can leave the " If anything happens to me.... " information.Paranoid? Nope. For instance, there are some irrreplacable family papers they're attempting to have my mother get away from me, to give to them. Pretty potentially valuable, will they just ask me? Nope. Why do they want these out of my hands? I have no idea, of course no doubt would like to make use of them themselves but also could be thinking ahead. If something happened to me, my children would have these files full of historical documents...... . Again, I'm actually quite rational in this perspective considering some of the other facts involved. When running my therapists " Tell me 5 points which validate your fears ", my blood ran cold because I had 6.
The cold-bloodedness behind this stuff is terrifying. I don't know what diagnosis would justify any of it, have to keep reminding myself of some of the things I've heard to really, really keep believing I'm not making it all up. I wish, most sincerely I were. What these people are capable of, I do not know, I can only say what I've been told by them and then try to think of what they would have in store for me. My mother was told she should not get her pace-maker, for instance, that she would be nebulously violating her own DNR, since if she 'died', this would also shock her back to life. I think they looked into whether or not this was legal, no lie. The DNR was then hung on my parent's refridgerator, they were told so that if paramedics came to the house they wouldn't screw up and give them life again. My parents had to look at that thing every second of every day. My father was sat down for a good talk, told he really should go die, to give it up, it was time now. I know what I heard, although the story was changed later, it really was exactly that bald. He was also subjected to some elder abuse which is very, very documented, be sure, since he did finally make them happy by dying last year. My mother was kept in another room so she couldn't interfere. It goes downhill from there, too much and too long to get into, suffice to say human life means pretty much zero to these people. My sister refused, for instance, to take my mother for her surgery, you know why? She told her ( to her face, there are more witnesses than me ) that she shouldn't GET this surgery because she might live too long and die of something else, what if she got another disease and used up all her savings fighting that? Also, my sister told her ( no lie ) that she had a vacation sceduled for that week, she worked TOO hard ( she's a d*m teacher, has 3 months plus of vacation ) and refused to use any of it nursing my mother after a surgery. She said it was selfish of my mother to get her life-preserving surgery, she refused to have one thing to do with it. CanNOT imagine what that must have been like to hear.
At the moment, my husband and I are supposedly holding my mother hostage and have forced her to pay for a costly improvement to our property, have swiped all the family treasures, refuse to allow anyone to come see her. None of this is true, of course, We purposely paid for her apartment to avoid just this, plus everyone knows perfectly well they can come see her, etc. etc. etc. and the family treasures would still be sitting in the old family home abandoned if I hadn't moved them to our attic. We were set-up, darned if we did, darned if we did not.
I don't know if these people are everywhere. I'd like to know, in point of fact, maybe would not feel SO alone out here with my security cameras and mace. IS our society full of diagnosable kook-balls, and if so, what on earth is going on, OR are we a little singular due to circumstances and are just plain lucky to have this forum? I'm far too distracted to think about the definitive labels, but boy, I would love to know what the heck is WRONG with these people.
Having lived through all this once, gosh, it does refine your instincts a LOT. Mine have been shrieking. Also fortunately no matter how many folks they manage to discredit me to, there are a few they are clueless about, with whom I can leave the " If anything happens to me.... " information.Paranoid? Nope. For instance, there are some irrreplacable family papers they're attempting to have my mother get away from me, to give to them. Pretty potentially valuable, will they just ask me? Nope. Why do they want these out of my hands? I have no idea, of course no doubt would like to make use of them themselves but also could be thinking ahead. If something happened to me, my children would have these files full of historical documents...... . Again, I'm actually quite rational in this perspective considering some of the other facts involved. When running my therapists " Tell me 5 points which validate your fears ", my blood ran cold because I had 6.
The cold-bloodedness behind this stuff is terrifying. I don't know what diagnosis would justify any of it, have to keep reminding myself of some of the things I've heard to really, really keep believing I'm not making it all up. I wish, most sincerely I were. What these people are capable of, I do not know, I can only say what I've been told by them and then try to think of what they would have in store for me. My mother was told she should not get her pace-maker, for instance, that she would be nebulously violating her own DNR, since if she 'died', this would also shock her back to life. I think they looked into whether or not this was legal, no lie. The DNR was then hung on my parent's refridgerator, they were told so that if paramedics came to the house they wouldn't screw up and give them life again. My parents had to look at that thing every second of every day. My father was sat down for a good talk, told he really should go die, to give it up, it was time now. I know what I heard, although the story was changed later, it really was exactly that bald. He was also subjected to some elder abuse which is very, very documented, be sure, since he did finally make them happy by dying last year. My mother was kept in another room so she couldn't interfere. It goes downhill from there, too much and too long to get into, suffice to say human life means pretty much zero to these people. My sister refused, for instance, to take my mother for her surgery, you know why? She told her ( to her face, there are more witnesses than me ) that she shouldn't GET this surgery because she might live too long and die of something else, what if she got another disease and used up all her savings fighting that? Also, my sister told her ( no lie ) that she had a vacation sceduled for that week, she worked TOO hard ( she's a d*m teacher, has 3 months plus of vacation ) and refused to use any of it nursing my mother after a surgery. She said it was selfish of my mother to get her life-preserving surgery, she refused to have one thing to do with it. CanNOT imagine what that must have been like to hear.
At the moment, my husband and I are supposedly holding my mother hostage and have forced her to pay for a costly improvement to our property, have swiped all the family treasures, refuse to allow anyone to come see her. None of this is true, of course, We purposely paid for her apartment to avoid just this, plus everyone knows perfectly well they can come see her, etc. etc. etc. and the family treasures would still be sitting in the old family home abandoned if I hadn't moved them to our attic. We were set-up, darned if we did, darned if we did not.
I don't know if these people are everywhere. I'd like to know, in point of fact, maybe would not feel SO alone out here with my security cameras and mace. IS our society full of diagnosable kook-balls, and if so, what on earth is going on, OR are we a little singular due to circumstances and are just plain lucky to have this forum? I'm far too distracted to think about the definitive labels, but boy, I would love to know what the heck is WRONG with these people.
you forgot one important point, firstly they will develop a medication , then the tv ad - the disease will all of a sudden become a me2 type
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Good point mate... very good point. My sarcastic side missed that one when writing. Full credit for the pickup and correction... :D:sneaky:
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