I've been on a field trip where I couldn't take my dog, so I asked a friend to take care of him. She agreed and moved in for 2 weeks. She knows him, he likes her and her dog. Because she knows him, she knows he's scared of people, because she knows me, she knows I have PTSD and that my apartment is some kind of safe zone for me.
When I came back home at 3am 2 weeks later she was still awake, had cooked a delicious meal and I fell asleep afterwards. I really love her as a friend but when I saw my apartment the next morning and saw that almost everything was broken, dirty or just somewhere else I got really pissed... Moldy wet towels in the washing mashine, moldy food in the dish washer, used sanitary napkins in the bath room, a fridge full of rotten fruits and veggies... It's been a week and I still find things, that are broken or dirty as f*ck and I'm not done cleaning yet. I'm chaotic myself but at least it's clean here. She ruined a lot of things like my coffee machine, the mirrow in the bath room, glasses, dishes and some things that are really important to me like a leash that reminded me of my first dog everytime I used it, my wooden desk has fat and water stains, I have to grind it down to make it at least better, my new couch has stains... It looked like she thrown some parties here and if I find out I get really pissed because that's the most horrible thing I can imagine for my dog. He's a shy little guy and anxious of people and loud noises and I told her if she wants to go out or has something to do, she can call another friend of mine who will pick up my dog anytime, anywhere so she doesn't feel like she can't go anywhere or meet friends or whatever. She met a guy on a dating app or website and he was here all the time, which I find kinda inappropriate. She slept in my bed and I hope they didn't f*ck around here :mad: I don't get angry often but this was way too much... :wtf: