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It also takes being at a certain place with ourselves in order to let another in, if that makes sense.

I'm not saying that you should learn to love yourself before you love another. I hate that expression, and whenever someone said it to me I would snerk that I love myself every night. Really, though, I don't think I'll ever truly love myself.

But you should try to reach a point where you can keep your shit from rolling downhill most of the time, before you try to share your life with someone else. I wish I had done that.

I takes a "different" kind of woman to love a warrior, Brother. Some of us on here are lucky as hell to have one of those gems. If your pts is getting worse because of your surroundings, then maybe it's time to come to terms. You have to take care of yourself RAKKASAN. We are a different breed being warriors in the first place, couple that with pts and we're really different. It takes a special someone to hang with us and have our six. If you don't pack the gear to love a warrior and have his six at all times, maybe its time for an upgrade. Just an old grunts .02 Brother.

I've been on both sides of that road.

I can't kick her to curb cause she moved 2500 miles with me has no job cause her ignorance at 47 years old and no place to stay...

You mentioned in another thread that you're 34. She's 47. And she's the one mooching. The cougar has overstayed her welcome.

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Without knowing the GF, all I can say is, we can be a royal pain in the butt as well.
I wouldn't have the patience to live with me, tbh. It's a good reason, for me that is, to stay single.
 
Took me a longs ass time to get over 'no man left behind'. TBH, I never really have. But in dealing with civvies?

You can only abandon kids & pets. Everyone else can look after their damn selves. They may not want to, but they can.

^^^ She's not under fire. She's not walking wounded. She's not cut off, in country, & leaving her isn't letting her rot. She's a grown ass adult, who can take care of herself. Or not. Her own choice.

You don't have to be a dick about it, but you also don't have to keep fighting for it until one or both of you are dead.
 
It would be a dick move to just throw her out on the street. If you want to be a dick to her then by all means do so. That doesn't mean you shouldn't give her a week or so to find her own place.
 
---ing stupid people.Refuse to take anti malaria tabs because she'd risk it. I answer how about carrying a disease home, through mosquito infect others and be a burden on society?
They ask how on earth a malaria victim can infect another human?
Hello, mosquito?
Blood + disease ---> Mosquito ---> blood + disease.
What is there not to understand about transmittable diseases and their vectors?
 
Not quite. Malaria is a blood transmitted disease. So a transfusion, or direct contact for a period of time can transmit it. (I was told sexually transmitting it is hardly existent but conceivably possible.) So can a woman who has it transmit it to a newborn, especially if the mother has a fever at the time when the bugs are active and growing. But it's rare. The CDC won't allow you to give blood if you have had malaria before within a certain period (I forgot.). I could not give blood to a friend who had a car accident because I have had malaria, at the time it was about 4 years after I got back.
 
Yes, same with someone getting bit and mosquito biting someone else, providing it's the right kind of mosq.

Way worse if they don't seem to give a hoot about being unable to work if they get ill, the cost on society, the worry of their families.

Hope you're doing okay now Viking. Too many people I know of have it recurring and are out of weeks on end.
 
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