Raven
Diamond Member
It also takes being at a certain place with ourselves in order to let another in, if that makes sense.
I'm not saying that you should learn to love yourself before you love another. I hate that expression, and whenever someone said it to me I would snerk that I love myself every night. Really, though, I don't think I'll ever truly love myself.
But you should try to reach a point where you can keep your shit from rolling downhill most of the time, before you try to share your life with someone else. I wish I had done that.
I've been on both sides of that road.
You mentioned in another thread that you're 34. She's 47. And she's the one mooching. The cougar has overstayed her welcome.
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I'm not saying that you should learn to love yourself before you love another. I hate that expression, and whenever someone said it to me I would snerk that I love myself every night. Really, though, I don't think I'll ever truly love myself.
But you should try to reach a point where you can keep your shit from rolling downhill most of the time, before you try to share your life with someone else. I wish I had done that.
I takes a "different" kind of woman to love a warrior, Brother. Some of us on here are lucky as hell to have one of those gems. If your pts is getting worse because of your surroundings, then maybe it's time to come to terms. You have to take care of yourself RAKKASAN. We are a different breed being warriors in the first place, couple that with pts and we're really different. It takes a special someone to hang with us and have our six. If you don't pack the gear to love a warrior and have his six at all times, maybe its time for an upgrade. Just an old grunts .02 Brother.
I've been on both sides of that road.
I can't kick her to curb cause she moved 2500 miles with me has no job cause her ignorance at 47 years old and no place to stay...
You mentioned in another thread that you're 34. She's 47. And she's the one mooching. The cougar has overstayed her welcome.
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