Why Am I Being Judged

[Deleted member 38644]

I feel suffocated but having many things wrong with me should not cause me to be judged. I can't be who I want to be afraid of being judged. I listen to country and pop music. My dad always rush into the room and tell me to cut that honkey tonk shit off. There are topics on this forum that many can't discuss with others. I always wanted to dress the way I wanted to. Because there is something wrong with a person that person not be looked at or treated any different. I go through nothing but cycles of trauma and to avoid any disaster I stay in the house until it's time for treatment. it's not fair its just not fair. My family knows 0 about me. I can't handle PTSD without medication but it's wrong how so many people are judged because they are different than you.

 

[Jim Me]

I hope you keep that drive to be unapologetically you forever, even if it might be too hard sometimes. It's not your fault other people judge you. That comes out of their issues, I bet.

Whenever you can, crank that honkey tink shit up! (Even if it's just loud enough for you to hear.)

 

[Deleted member 38644]

This made my day! Lmao crank that honkey tonk shit up

I hope you keep that drive to be unapologetically you forever, even if it might be too hard sometimes. I...

 

[Friday]

Couple Q's

1) Is it actually judgement that bothers you, the process of people evaluating you socially/ personally/ professionally/ artistically/ physically/ etc. and determining whether or not they like you, or what you're doing... Or only when they dislike you or what you're doing?

2) Do you honestly not judge anyone? Or don't believe you have the right to judge someone as dangerous & unsafe & to stay away / respond according to your judgment; or -even if perfectly safe- you dislike them for whatever reason and not have those people in your life (whether for 2 minutes on the street, or dating, or any level)?

 

[Deleted member 38644]

The fear of being judged all together because it's too much

Couple Q's

1) Is it actually judgement that bothers you, the process of people evaluating you socially/...

 

[Friday]

The fear of being judged all together because it's too much

Okay, so not the fear of what they'll find / what their opinion will be... But even the idea that someone is looking at you and coming to a decision, yes? (Whether they love/ like/ don't care/ dislike/ hate what they find doesn't matter, but the actual evaluation itself). That can come from a whole lot of different places. Do you know where yours comes from, or is it something you're exploring with a therapist?

 

[lostforgottensoul]

I have to say that my don't give a shit meter has been developed over the time my family has judged and harrassed me. They are insane! The efforts they go to to find or make up shit and spread it and use it against me and harass me..............DRAMA! And I have zero time for it so you have to develop a don't give a shit meter. Trust me I get it. Coming from someone that used what other's thought of me to dictate what i thought of me. I had no other way to see myself. But today I have a don't give a shit meter and I crank up my tunes (which isn't country cause I had to grow up with country music but that's totally cool) and if someone dislikes my taste in alternative/pop/rock/classic rock (yes a huge taste in music) then I DON'T GIVE A SHIT!

Everyone needs to have a don't give a shit meter. Uh, let em judge. That's their thing about them, not about you. You don't give a shit!

 

[Deleted member 38644]

Im gone have to screenshot this!!! You are too f*ckin on point!! best dang advice!! Im gone crank up my meter

I have to say that my don't give a shit meter has been developed over the time my family has...