Why Are People So Hard To Understand?

[LongStoryShort]

True we do. I don't really have anyone who listens. Really I'm lucky and feel a bit bad forcomplaining. I do have a family which keeps me busy and cheers me up. Many people have it worse, so I should not complain. I have just had a couple of bad days cause outside my house unless it's one on one talk I am so bad at it it makes me sad cause every one else seems just fine. My spouse is all right, but he never wants to hear anything about the past which on one hand is good but on another sad because I can't mention anything about it. If I do he just changes the subject. But it will still be in my thoughts. Other than him I have only that one friend. I had a better day today and I feel ok at the moment.

 

[JadedGhost13]

Bless you, I feel terrible for you knowing your spouse refuses to allow you to speak of the past. Not to pry but are you a younger couple? When we (spouse and myself) were younger it was harder to speak of our pasts. As we have grown as a couple, and matured through the many years we find it easier to speak of the past we both had before we were a couple. If you do not find that with your spouse then I hope you can find that with a special friend. It really does help to have someone who understands.