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News Worldwide impact of the novel coronavirus (covid-19)

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A mask has been part of leaving the house for 3 months now. It has been required indoors for the whole state a week and required at my work since we were called back a month and a half ago. At this point I shouldn't see people without masks unless they are alone outside or driving. It has already become odd when i see someones face indoors, it is becoming MY new normal. I know there are lots and lots of people who aren't complying- the numbers show it.
 
At this point I shouldn't see people without masks unless they are alone outside or driving

I personally don't want to see people without a mask but I feel that seeing people without a mask will just be reality. Some people just won't comply. It sucks. It shouldn't be. People should think of others and @Sideways said, just help out but some just won't and accepting that over this last day or two is helping my own fear. All I can do is my own part and make sure to always wear a mask and always have a new one with me to wear.

Last night, the 4th of July (US independence day) there were at least 300 people outside on an apartment complex driveway letting off professional fireworks. All very close to each other. Less then a foot from each other. None of them had a mask on. I stayed inside.
 

Yep... But masks (while we were on that topic, here thread) are still mandatory many places - transport, public offices, of course medical, shops personnel (not the customers), the like...

And the general public is still upholding corona safety rules, and socially distancing even where not mask wearers (which bit curious to watch, half measures.)
 
the challenge is that people won't take this seriously until someone they know is affected. I see it all the time...people on the news saying "oh I wish I had taken it seriously" once someone they know dies. Sadly that's been a huge downside to the success we had earlier in the US. Because it stopped so people from getting sick they stopped taking it seriously.

And the info we are getting is just unreal. You really do have to pick a side -- science, religion, politics. Because all 3 of them are sending out totally different information - so it leaves it up to us to sort out what we want to believe. That's the sad part.... what we want to believe. sigh.
 
the challenge is that people won't take this seriously until someone they know is affected.

No one ever thinks it will happen to them, no matter what it is. I know @Freida was a dispatcher, I was a first responder/EMT firefighter and I would bet the most commonly stated phrase at a scene by a victim was "I never thought it would happen to me'. It's just human nature. Until it lands in our lap, that stuff on TV is just moving pictures and those dangers on the other side of the windshield won't get us. I bet Freida heard it a bunch on the 911 calls too.

It's hard for me to know that about myself, like if it happens to me I am not allowed to say I didn't expect it. I do expect it, thats PTSD for me. I know if i get COVID it won't be a surprise because every time I slack a little bit, like touching the buttons at the ATM and forgetting sanitize my hands immediately because I was holding up the line or whatever, I know that I just let myself get it. Thats PTSD. It was a full time job, and now this virus. It is overwhelming at times.

As more and more of us get it, more of us will know someone that says they didn't think they would ever get it but did. I don't know what the critical mass is for herd immunity, but herd awareness has got to be a thing too and I hope we are getting there soon.

I wish people like Tom Hanks would step up and do public service spots just saying simply " I got it and you can get it, believe it".
 
I wish people like Tom Hanks would step up and do public service spots just saying simply " I got it and you can get it, believe it".

Tom Hanks got Covid? God! I've been way away from news lately to not know that. But that would be an awesome public service to see! Or that Britian main guy (sorry, don't know specifics) that got it. Or even do a public service with all famous people that got it. That would even be more impactful.
 
@lostforgottensoul yeah Tom and his wife Rita Wilson both had it. Not sure which main British guy you refer to but it doesn't matter, both Prince Charles and Boris Johnson have had it. I like music and we go to a lot of concerts. The last guy we saw has died from it, John Prine, and the tickets we had to see Jackson Browne in May were wasted because he had it and the state was in lockdown anyway. Ellis Marsalis, Placido Domingo, lots and lots of other musicians. George Stephanopoulos was the white house press secretary for The Clinton administration and is now a regular political analyst for ABC news, he had it and could be a great person to put something together.

Anything to reach the people that are thinking that it is for other people but not them.
 
I think it's actually mentally self-protective, to not be able to imagine horrible things happening, because it's like the polar opposite of ptsd. But in the face of evidence requiring action or prevention, unwise to not accept what's there or increased probability.

I think young people, in particular, don't realize things like surviving but markedly (possibly) losing lung function for life, is huge. :(

I do believe people in general are known to not change behaviours with a lot of fear; somewhat with a little fear, and to the greatest degree when things are presented as the change will be positive/ help them.

But in the midst of fear, I think it helps to have clear directions, and for those that won't comply, try to avoid them. Someone told me matter of factly, who survived WWII, ~'those who listened lived, those who didn't died'.

In the meantime, don't panic, wash copiously, especially more so repeatedly touchable surfaces (door knobs, phones, taps, remote controls etc), keep your shoes separate (they can track much, so at the store take them off right away at home, disinfect your floors), limit close contact to people using their sense, mask and don't touch it, get rest and eat well if possible, exercise that you enjoy, nature +/ or family, look for comforting things/ people/places, pets, distance of course, but remember too context means a lot- a bar or nightclub is different than a store, and outside reduces risk. Most cases involve people coming in from hotspots (the carriers), lack of impeccable hygiene (required), and communal living space/ close quarters (including sharing food/ utensils, or bathrooms). Think of preventing colds and the flu- but ramp up your precautions like it's on steroids. And then keep going and do what you can to stay as healthy as possible, and as peace-filled as possible.

We have been very fortunate in general, relatively speaking, in that the generation prior experienced Smallpox, TB, & Polio epidemics, WWII (if not WWI), and the Korean and Vietnam War, let alone the height of the Cold War, and the Great Depression, to name just a few horrendous things. And they survived & had lives (again). We have been able to take some things for granted. On the upside, the environment (which most were/ are worried about) is getting a reprieve from unprecedented consumerism/ production, pollution, travel, and use of natural resources. Not the way we'd want it to be- but I remember hearing before this by a month or 2, "Well NO WAY will people reduce their air travel".

Keep yourself as safe as you can. I think the isolation has gotten to most people, too. and they're reacting more than thinking. :( All JMHO though.
 
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mask and don't touch it,

A front desk person at my pain dr showed me this and so thought it might help.

My mask tends to move up into my eyes where I have trouble seeing (especially if looking down at my service dog) and sometimes it moves down. They are like the one time masks. Not N95. The blue accordion ones that I bought at Walgreens.

Anyway, the front office person taught me how to like pinch the masks in the front with two fingers in order to move it down or to move it better over my mouth and nose. I also take it off that way. Of course sanitizing my hands afterwards but it keeps you from touching the sides of the mask.
 
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