Younger Siblings Emotionally Or Physically Abusing You.

[Abrasky]

I am remembering my younger siblings emotionally abusing me, physically abusing me when I was 17-19 years old. Mostly this abusive was through copying their abusive parents. My siblings emotionally blackmailed through ignoring, they copied my dad's experience deprivation thing that I experienced with my dad's sexual abuse. They stopped talking to me because I had a job and went to uni. Also hitting ect if I disagreed with one of them. One did start hitting and kicking me. I was required to defend myself.

In the end it really broke me down, because even though I wasn't getting any love from my parent's. I gave so much time, and energy to them that I as a parent give to my child now.


Anyone dealing with the grief of having younger abusive siblings?

 

[bethinhfx]

I can totally relate, and its been heart breaking. My sisters have completely thrown me under the bus; and I invested a lot of time and love towards both. In my community they have used my sex life and a myriad of other very denigrating things to keep me down. Its been very, very, very shocking, painful, heartbreaking, and finally, mind numbing. Obviously both of my sisters are very sick and the only choice I have is to stay away from them, which I do and pray for their souls. Remember, the best revenge is living well and making friends with people who can see you and love you for who you are- warts and all! :)

 

[AzureMind]

Same here...my brother was raised ABSOLUTELY spoiled rotten, being allowed to curse my parents raw, and he was never blasted in him mouth for it. I can't STAND him....any moment around him is too long, and I've thought about smashing his face in with my fists until he was mutilated, but that's only going to set me back...:mad:

It's really on my parents head, because they're weaklings that never stepped up to deal with him as their child, because my dad was a drug-addict that was in and out of our lives our WHOLE lives, and my mother, just thinks that it's the cutest thing in the world, and was a spoiled child herself, so she see nothing wrong with the behavior; they don't run their house he does; he's not required to work, (show no desire to have money in his own pocket, and he's almost half-way through his 20's) he has no driver's license, and does nothing all day but stay on the computer, He's immature, and pathetic in all ways, punched me in the eye, when I was dissociated, and I was so mad when came outta my trance that I wanted kill him with my bare hands...I front-kicked him in the stomach, and I held back to let him walk away when he said he was "sorry"...I should've knocked his teeth down his throat...that's the ONLY chance he'll get with me; no more empathy, no more concern; I'm off big brother duty, he's just ungrateful, and He'll get his, I hope to god that I don't drop my self-control because he'll be the first one I come at, and I ALWAYS aim to do a job correctly and to a T.

Good thing is, when I'm not at the house, I don't even think about him, or my parents....good riddance to bad rubbish. :)