Zeus Is Dying

[deer_in_headlights]

((((((((Curiouser)))))))))

A friend sent me this, framed, when I lost my intensely loved Jack Russell, 10 years ago. I still go into wrenching sobs when I read it... but it's a good cry, a remembrance of the bonds and love we have that never dies, even when the body fails.

(weeping)))

Oh Debbie, I so don't want you to lose your beloved Zeus... I'm praying for you during the night when I'm awake, and all during the day... crying, too. I know the fear, pain, agony... I don't want you to lose him... I love you so much (((((((Debbie and Zeus)))))))))) Praying you have much more time for love to give each other.

much love,
Deer

 

[Tinyflame]

I'm so sorry Deb

((((Deb))))
xoxoxoxox

 

[Tinyflame]

Prayers for you and Zeus

 

[intothelight]

I made a really tough decision today. The vet is going to remove the cancerous kidney on Monday. From everything I have read, surgery to remove the tumor or tumor filled organ is the first step. The kidney has to come out because they do not know if there are more tumors in it, and if it rupture again, death is immanent. But the surgery is risky, on top of the surgery he just had. So I am trusting the vets advice and going ahead. My vet is doing it for free, and there is a good chance that Zeus will be seen by the oncology department of our state veterinary school. I won't exchange the quality of his life for quantity, but if there are things that can be done that ensure both, I am open.

Deer, thank you for the book references. I went to Barnes and Noble, so I have a lot of reading to do this weekend. This is all so frightening.

Thank you all for your support and sincere concern. It helps so much, as I know there are people who understand how I am feeling, and don't judge me because I love my dog as much as I do. I am not a freak here.

 

[Nighthawk]

Debbie
Freak is far from what you are. You are so compationate and the love you give to those you give it too is full and I BELIEVE you give yourself in full when you give it. I am hoping for the best outcome and amthinking and sending my best wishes to both of you

 

[Darkness Shines]

Debbie, you're NOT a freak. Zeus is a member of your family. I'm glad there still might be something that could be done. More (((hugs)))

 

[Jawn]

I'm so sorry. I lost 2 dogs in the last year and know what you are going through. (((hugs)))

And yes, they are part of our family. I think of mine as my "kids".

Jawn

 

[shadowchaser]

Sometimes in life we find a friend who touches our hearts. These friends come in all shapes and sizes. Big and tall to small and fuzzy.

Some of these friends will be with us till we pass and some will pass before us. Those who go first wait patiently for us to join them. They wait to hear the stories of what we have done. New loves we have found and lost. Adventures had in the heat of a moment. Great accomplishments and every failure. They wait for us. While they wait they tend a home making sure everything is just right. They look forward to the day that we are able to join them but know they need a little time to get everything ready. They go ahead of us because they love us and want everything right for us. The greater we live our lives for them the greater our home together will be. Our hearts may morn the passing of the physical touch and sight of one we love so but it is only a short separation. No matter how long the years drag on they are short compared to the eternity that waits. Love knows no boundaries in life and even less in death.

Sorry if I got a little sappy with this. But you touched my heart and I felt that you needed this.

 

[Froggie]

I know there are people who understand how I am feeling, and don't judge me because I love my dog as much as I do. I am not a freak here.

anyone who has taken time to really connect with their pet or any animal realizes that there is a intelligent soul inside of that animal. You're no freak, you're just in advance with time. Best of luck for Monday, keep us posted ((((DEB & ZEUS))))

 

[KP the nut]

(((Deb))) YOU ARE NOT A FREAK

Zeus, is a family member, in fact closer to you than a lot of families.

My dogs are my babies, I love them, they love me, end of story.

I will be thinking of you both tomorrow.

(((HUGS))) to you both

Love
KP

 

[Heather]

Debbie - I am sorry about Zeus.

we had a cat for almost 18 years. it was the one and only good thing my dad ever gave us. in 2000 she started having seizures and the next morning she died. it was agonizingly painful. I know you feel. take care Heather

 

[Nighthawk]

Debbie,

I am not sure I will have the chance tommorow, so I want to let you know I will be thinking of both of you. I will be checking in for updates and will be holding all hope and support that all will go well. Give Zeus a great big hug and a kiss maybe on the nose and tell him we are all routing for him.

NH