Hi and welcome to the forum!
We try to shy away from comparisons of whose trauma was worse because there really is no way to compare-----it doesn't really help with healing and can be hurtful toward other people.
I won't get into details but no I wasn't tied down so is my trauma "less than" yours? Or maybe your trauma is "less than" mine because it happened when I was a toddler who had no clue what sex even was but you were much older? See how it can get complicated fast? Really, comparing trauma only ends up with people getting hurt, feeling invalidated, and so forth.