Y'all Are Probably Getting Tired Of Me Now But....

[Gs172003]

Most of the time I've been with my now husband I haven't slept in the same bed with him except the first two years( I think) we got married. ( we've been together 14 years total. He's the only man ive done that with so I chalk it up to #2. That said....

I slept in there with him almost all night last night. Most nights I set an alarm about an hour before I'm supposed to get up, go in there with him, then get up.

 

[Abstract]

That is truly amazing! Well done. I know its hard to do.

 

[aut555]

Most of the time I've been with my now husband I haven't slept in the same bed with him except the first...

Wow. Is this a breakthrough for you? I sorta face the issue of fear in that respect after being traumatised at night.

 

[Gs172003]

Wow. Is this a breakthrough for you? I sorta face the issue of fear in that respect after being traumat...

I never ever go in right at "bedtime". Ever. I always if I go in there go in waaaaaaay after him. This time is was only about an hour after him so for me.. Right now...yeah. A true breakthrough would be for me to go in there BEFORE I go to sleep on the couch and not wait til I can avoid him being awake. Does that make sense?

 

[aut555]

I never ever go in right at "bedtime". Ever. I always if I go in there go in waaaaaaay after him. This t...

Yes, totally, you are controlling your exposure to perceived trigger l think. But l can be totally wrong. Lol

 

[Gs172003]

Yes, totally, you are controlling your exposure to perceived trigger l think. But l can be totally wrong...

No...you're absolutely right.
It's going to take ALOT farther for me to get there...but I'm CLOSER....

 

[aut555]

That's what l tell myself, l did this much which is better then doing nothing.