Blaming

[futurefocussed]

Do you blame yourself when someone treats you badly?
Blaming yourself for their 'bad day'?

 

[Deleted member 38644]

Do you blame yourself when someone treats you badly?
Blaming yourself for their 'bad day'?[/QUOT...

Unfortunately yes all the time :( I feel like everything be my fault honestly

 

[Bloomy]

Yes but I am working on it

 

[ladee]

Not anymore. It takes hard work and commitment to deal with our issues and that's all the work I am willing to do. If someone is having a bad day..it's up to them to correct it..not me

 

[Deleted member 38644]

Not anymore. It takes hard work and commitment to deal with our issues and that's all the work I am willi...

I need your attitude

 

[Tornadic Thoughts]

Not as much as I used to, but it still creeps up on me at times, and other times, washes over me like a f'n tsunami before I know what hit me. But my recovery time keeps improving. Continually learning how to find and dig up more of the roots of my own issues, as well as finding more effective and sustainable ways to ground myself in that awareness, helps me better understand the discomfort and pain in others that often drives their behavior, just as it does my own.

 

[Deleted member 38644]

Not as much as I used to, but it still creeps up on me at times, and other times, washes over...

Same here

 

[Chiqui]

Do you blame yourself when someone treats you badly?
Blaming yourself for their 'bad day'?[/QUOT...

I am better now on this than I used to be.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Yep, sure do. Everything that goes wrong or bad or not right is always my fault. I punish myself if some has a bad day or if something bad happened to them or etc etc etc. Anything wrong or bad or not right in the world i punish for.

 

[Rani G2]

Do you blame yourself when someone treats you badly?

Hey Futurefocussed,

No,but I get extremely aggressive if someone treats me in a bad way. It depends. But, I dont like being the one who backs off, I usually like power and I use to make hints if someone tries to be superior.

 

[Freedomfighter]

Do you blame yourself when someone treats you badly?
Blaming yourself for their 'bad day'?[/QUOT...

Nope, that kind of behavior just outrages me, because those are some very ill and disturbing people that do that.

 

[Ladyghosthunter]

I don't blame myself. It's not useful to blame their issues on me because I don't live with them, sleep with them, or go to the toilet with them. Now if someone started taking stuff out on me because of their lives, that's a whole different story. Depending on the situation, their day can go from bad to worse depending on my mood.