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Paranoia rising again

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So a few days ago some guy I knew ran into me the other day, scoffed at called me a maggot. No big deal right? Anyways this guy literally waited in his car for who knows how long until I was in the post office. Now I’m convinced this degenerate is stalking me. It’s not the first time I walked into a building and he shows up less than a minute later. This guy was a friend of mine but proved to be a very violent and dangerous individual. Which is where the concern comes from.

Anyways that really triggered my paranoia, because now I think every time the wind settles the house, maybe someone opened the front door.

Just 10 minutes ago I had to go downstairs to grab my phone charger, and since I didn’t feel like putting my pants back on, I just grabbed my tactical pen and clipped it to my boxers, just to “be on the safe side”.

Also I don’t leave my house without that pen or something else solid. I just feel defenceless without something solid to grab if things get bad.

Am i justified in this level of concern or should I be worried about my state of mind?
 
So a few days ago some guy I knew ran into me the other day, scoffed at called me a maggot. N...
After having a stalking situation that sounds similar to yours from a first look, I wear a hunting knife on my side for protection, and I always will. I don't actually intend to use it in an attack, it's more for looks and intimidation. But if I did have to use it it would be because my life felt in danger.
 
After having a stalking situation that sounds similar to yours from a first look, I wear a huntin...
In my opinion you shouldn’t carry to intimidate. And if you’re carrying a knife that might be used for protect you, I urge you to get trained in weapon retention. The last thing you want to happen is getting disarmed by your attacker.
 
In my opinion you shouldn’t carry to intimidate. And if you’re carrying a knife that might be used for protect you, I urge you to get trained in weapon retention

I couldn't agree more strongly.

If you're not fully prepared to use whatever you're carrying? You're simply bringing a weapon to be used upon you, by your attacker.
 
Hi @Notamorningperson ...personally you carry whatever you need to feel safe.... If that makes you able to go out and about then that's OK....

As for creepy dude... OK so he is an ex friend.... Start writing down times, dates, get any evidence you can, photos, recordings on your phone.... Now in not saying he is stalking you... He's angry and obviously wants your attention.... But just ignore, ignore.. But don't let him know he is bothering you... Confidence...
Cognitive Distortion.... There is some info on here..... See what you think..... And take care
 
I agree with @Friday and @Notamorningperson

A knife is a powerful weapon if it is used. If you were attacked and it was taken from you, you'd be in a whole new world of trouble. I'd really, strongly recommend getting trained in its use and retention.

Stalking is horrible. I've been stalked. I wouldn't wish the terror on anyone. I wish I had some useful advice for you.
 
This guy sounds creepy. Take a self defense class. It's very empowering to be able to defend yourself w...
Unfortunately I know how to kill with my bare hands. So my best course of action is avoidance at all costs just in case a fight escalated. Good thing I know all about talking and walking my way out of sticky situations.
 
In my opinion you shouldn’t carry to intimidate. And if you’re carrying a knife that migh...
Thank you that's good advice and yes I have had some training and will have more in the future.

This guy sounds creepy. Take a self defense class. It's very empowering to be able to defend yourself w...
I am taking a combat class actually.

So a few days ago some guy I knew ran into me the other day, scoffed at called me a maggot. N...
Sorry I got confused and thought I was on my own thread, I apologize for accidentally responding to messages that were meant for you, and I wish I could delete them. I apologize for my confusion and any trouble it caused.
 
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