People i used to know having an affair. do i tell, or is this about my triggers?

[Swift]

Yeah.
Could it maybe be both?
Like, you want to tell because it's the right course of action morally, and it triggers you when people don't do that?
I don't have any advice though.

 

[Mee]

Yeah.
Could it maybe be both?
Like, you want to tell because it's the right course of action morally, an...

I often feel you I understand my thoughts very well swift. Thank you.

 

[Mee]

https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3065096

I fell across this earlier. I agree with the writer. I think it's abusive. Common or endemic in society doesn’t mean ’not abusive’. After all....rape culture. Ignoring make victims. Lack of justice. All common. All not great things.

 

[somerandomguy]

The author of that article has a whole website: Chump Lady

I agree that infidelity is poison, especially because relationship sexual issues can always be negotiated and renegotiated. Liars are toxic.