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Has anyone here been homeless? I'm writing this because I'm currently at risk of losing my job and am having extreme financial hardship(can't afford my medication and therapy) and frankly am quite scared I might be homeless in the coming months? Are there any steps one could go about to give a safety net? Thanks in advance
 
Yes I was for a long time. I lived mostly in my car - so I was lucky?

If it absolutely going to happen...what can you do to minimise your expenses now? What can you sell that you definitely will not be able to take with you but it may help to pay rent & utilities for a while?

Think about what season you are heading into and make sure you have the necessary clothes to keep the climate out.

You can tell your therapist, psydoc and gp what is happening or likely to happen and see if they can assist.

Reach out to homeless shelters, government housing organisations and put your name onto waiting lists for cheaper alternatives regarding accommodation.

To avoid getting to the homeless stage is the absolute priority here. Is there anything you can do to save this job or switch to a job you can deal with?
 
What can you cut on?

(Can you cut on therapy to save for medication, for one? Is there a less expensive medication with the same active substance that could do for the time sake? things like that.)

Also, is it possible to look for a roommate / someone to share expenses with? Or move to a less expensive housing, save on the cost of the living in bills?

You say in the coming months... do you have an idea of a time horizon for that, that would let you calculate more? (A month time is different than quart of a year with planning.)

And anything like a food bank, charities, churches, etc, that could help out with meals expenses, eventually work as a shelter.

Also thinking of getting an idea of what the city you live in is like, it is different surviving in basically friendly cities where the citizens tend to care for one another, homeless or not, or where homeless folks stick together, than where the culture is hostile and people are very each on their own. So I would take that culture into account (and local legislative about homelessness) as well.
 
i was for two years, hotels, my truck, abandoned places peoples sofas etc was very tough getting help basicly as long as i hit the streets every day from 8 to 5 finding resources is how i got my way out for every ten doors homeless knocks maybe 1 opens good luck and prayers just get busy plugging away and dont stop till you are secure
 
Has anyone here been homeless? I'm writing this because I'm currently at risk of losing my job and am having extreme financial hardship(can't afford my medication and therapy) and frankly am quite scared I might be homeless in the coming months? Are there any steps one could go about to give a safety net? Thanks in advance
Has anyone here been homeless? I'm writing this because I'm currently at risk of losing my job and am having extreme financial hardship(can't afford my medication and therapy) and frankly am quite scared I might be homeless in the coming months? Are there any steps one could go about to give a safety net? Thanks in advance

I was homeless for a bit to escape a bad situation. I became a dog walker to accommodate it and luckily have kind friends who I would switch off from time to time so not to be in anyone's hairs. It helped for sometime but it's not a lifestyle based on consistency so if it happens to you (hopefully not) it helps so much to have one place that you can go no matter what. We're in colder weather now and the days are shorter so how you spend your time is crucial. I really hope things work out for the better.
 
I know of a few people who stored their stuff and joined a agency for house sitting. You would have to be prepared to travel and have a clean record, probably references and be super responsible but is that an option?
 
For a full year I was close to being homeless. However I am foreigner to where I live, so I am not allowed to be homeless, I need to have registration address.

I was in a tough situation and unfortunately I didn't know I would get into it ahead of time. Knowing that you are heading towards that works in your favor, although I know it's really, really scary. I did some things well and made mistakes in other way, so I'll tell you some things I did and then some I wish I had done. I see people have given some great advice as well. Good for you for writing on here and trying to be proactive. Just remember you will get through this! No matter what!

1. Sell some things. - this was something I did. Less than I would have liked, because I got socially anxious, but I still made some sales and those sales meant another paid bill or week of food.
2. Write down how much you spend on groceries weekly, keep track of it and start trying to cut that in half(more cooking, no takeout, no restaurants, no coffee out of home, eat simpler things you can cook cheap-rice, beans, potatoes)
3. Save as much as you can. - that may mean 3 months rent, but it can also mean 10$, 20$, anything. If you do lose your job, if you do get close to homeless, you'll be happy for every cent you've saved
4. Make a list of resources- like those mentioned above and others. If you need a loan(from bank or from friend), who would you ask? If you needed to stay somewhere for a night, what would be your options? Do you have a car? If you do and you live in bus-friendly city, can you sell your car to use as savings money, use bus for a while and get a car again when you're in better financial state?(I know there are cities where that's not possible, so that's just a suggestion). Is there any personal bill you can make smaller or eliminate for several months? (subscriptions, tiny bit slower internet, things like that)? Make sure you have as much information as you can in how you would handle the situation if needed, it will be harder to think of resources if you're panicking about where you'll sleep the next day
5. Is there any extra work you can do in the meantime? Part time gigs around your city, online jobs? Anything that can get you closer to having more savings?

As I said I did something things well, and some horribly. I also lived with my parents for 3 months,trying to save on food and such things(but I did keep my apartment as at the time ...well, it was more complicated to let it go). There were several months I was behind on ALL utility bills I had and eventually had to pay big sums to even them out. But at the time it allowed me to use the small money I had to pay rent and keep my place. There were a lot of weeks on very little food. Not that I recommend that at all. It was a hard year. But it did keep me from being homeless and at the time I was too anxious to allow other possibilities(for example roomate is something I'm open to now, but a while back when I was most anxious, I would have been too scared). Anyway, I'm sure whatever you decide and do you will manage this! One step at a time, it will pass.
 
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