Heather
Diamond Member
I hate these kind of situations and this is why lately I rather just hide in the closet than deal with other people.
My daughter is in 2nd grade and wanted a play date with this girl in her class. I arranged the play date. To make a long story short, her little friend (sophia) has been over a few times and quite frankly is disrespectful, rude and obnoxious. I don't want her around my daughter. An example: we were shopping and at checkout she kept asking me to buy her things and when I told her "no!" She got very snotty and said, "I told my mother I never wanted to go with you again 'cause you won't buy me anything".
After the last play date I called her mother and told her how she had been acting. The mother apologized profusely and said she should apologize to me for her rude behavior. This has yet to happen (3 weeks ago maybe longer). She's mad at my daughter (Nicole) and has been quite nasty to her in school i.e. not talking to her, telling other kids not to talk to her.
I told Nicole no more play dates with Sophia for awhile. I guess she told my daughter she wanted to come over and Nicole said, "my mother said I'm not allowed to play with you". So, her mother called me and said, "Nicole said that she couldn't play with Sophia anymore". When I said, "Yeah, that there'd be no more play dates....." in mid-sentence. She got all huffy and hung up in my face. Just because her daughter got over her hissy fit and decided she wants to be friends with Nicole again.... what about next time?
Then fast foward to yesterday: she kept calling and calling me because she needed to know the time and place of a birthday party of one of their classmates. I texted her the the time and place. I think I did more than most people would have but she wouldn't stop calling my phone. I refused to answer. The last thing I wanted was to talk to her after she hung up in my face.
It's not my fault she misplaced the invite.
My daughter is in 2nd grade and wanted a play date with this girl in her class. I arranged the play date. To make a long story short, her little friend (sophia) has been over a few times and quite frankly is disrespectful, rude and obnoxious. I don't want her around my daughter. An example: we were shopping and at checkout she kept asking me to buy her things and when I told her "no!" She got very snotty and said, "I told my mother I never wanted to go with you again 'cause you won't buy me anything".
After the last play date I called her mother and told her how she had been acting. The mother apologized profusely and said she should apologize to me for her rude behavior. This has yet to happen (3 weeks ago maybe longer). She's mad at my daughter (Nicole) and has been quite nasty to her in school i.e. not talking to her, telling other kids not to talk to her.
I told Nicole no more play dates with Sophia for awhile. I guess she told my daughter she wanted to come over and Nicole said, "my mother said I'm not allowed to play with you". So, her mother called me and said, "Nicole said that she couldn't play with Sophia anymore". When I said, "Yeah, that there'd be no more play dates....." in mid-sentence. She got all huffy and hung up in my face. Just because her daughter got over her hissy fit and decided she wants to be friends with Nicole again.... what about next time?
Then fast foward to yesterday: she kept calling and calling me because she needed to know the time and place of a birthday party of one of their classmates. I texted her the the time and place. I think I did more than most people would have but she wouldn't stop calling my phone. I refused to answer. The last thing I wanted was to talk to her after she hung up in my face.
It's not my fault she misplaced the invite.