I've been kind of watching this thread for a while now. I've been tempted to post, but thought better of it, as this is a very touchy subject for many. This post may or may not fit in the current trend of the thread and is probably a bit rambling, as I have so much I want to say, yet don't want to make pages of a post. Some sections may not make complete sense as I'm trying to keep this as short as I can, and may accidentally omit something.
I may... or may not own a gun. It's nobodies business but mine. I've spent countless hours at the gun range with a variety of guns including a grenade launcher. I've been on an anti/counter terrorist team, and reserve military police fully qualified to do patrols by myself. I've been assigned to a team that assisted in the protection of President Regan when he often switched from Air Force One to Marine One and back during his many visits to his Santa Barbra ranch and various political activities in central and southern California. I've been in the middle of a riot of up to over 100 people as a military police officer. I did not have to draw my gun. I was willing to if necessary. I was trained two shots to the center of body mass, aim at the head, if it's still there (the person is still standing), shoot it as the person is either wearing body armor or on drugs.
I see all this debate about if guns are good or bad, etc... Personally I believe a gun is just a piece(s) of metal and wood or plastic. It is not evil, it is not good, it has no thoughts or emotions or intentions. It just is. The purpose of it's creation is to kill/injure/destroy something it is aimed and fired at. A secondary purpose of it's creation is the protection of the person who has possession of it, and it's owner's interests through intimidation by it's ability to destroy.
Personally I believe the problem with guns is the popular media - movies, tv, etc. In western culture (mostly America) almost every move, tv show, etc has gun violence as either a main part of the theme or will sooner or later be incorporated into the plot. Someone, or a great number of people will be shot as a means of accomplishing part of the storyline. This is in almost EVERY movie or tv show.
This "trains" people to think of using guns when they are angry. Constant exposure to an idea, action, is a way of training someone. It is a slow and insidious way of brainwashing people to use guns when they become violent. The more violent of a sector of society they live in, the more gun violence is a part of every day life. Gangs = gun violence as they live (and die) a very violent life.
This all loops back to why guns are a popular way to kill or injure someone. It is the most common form of violence shown in the movies and tv to kill someone. It is relatively easy vs the amount of physical effort. It is the safest form of violence to the perpetrator as they can do it from a safer distance. The perpetrator's physical size, health, endurance and strength don't matter as long as they can lift and aim the gun.
No one will ever be able to eliminate guns in America, nor the rest of the world. Eliminate the gun violence in popular media and the gun violence world wide will drop drastically. American movies and tv shows are re-shown world wide, and influence the media produced outside America. This would take some time as reruns are and will continue to be popular. Install a "responsible hero(s)" in the popular media that abhor the use of guns. This is of course somewhat skewed and unrealistic as the drug culture will continue to be a gun using violent subculture with lots of homicides. A new generation would have to grow up without being exposed daily, hourly with gun violence in the popular media.
I know popular media will not change any time soon, so where does this leave us at? Personal responsibility.
In no particular order:
1. Keep your guns locked in a safe when not in use, unless you have a reason to carry a firearm, and can do it legally.
2. Only use them to remain proficient (target practice) unless you are hunting or use them in the defense of life, and liberty.
3. Never be under the influence of drugs or alcohol when handling or in the possession of guns.
4. Never handle a gun when angry.
5. Never point a gun at anything you don't intend to kill or destroy, loaded or not.
6. Never let a person who is not proficient/trained with guns handle them unsupervised.
7. When ever possible, ensure those around you who are in possession of a gun observe any an all safety rules.
8. Do not be afraid to restrict access to your weapons any person who you do not trust COMPLETELY with your life.
9. You can never "un-shoot" someone. It's permanent, and possibly lethal. If it wasn't a justified shooting, you will probably spend time in jail regardless of how you felt, what you thought.
10. You have very little time to decide whether or not to shoot. The courts have years to decide if it was justified. The truth may not "win the day" in court.
11. Last but not least. If you own a gun, get training on it. Keep training so you are proficient on it. Know how to use it, when to use it, when NOT to use it. Know how to keep someone from taking it away from you and using it on YOU.