Sweetpea76
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I have had to learn to stop taking things personally. He is sick. I do not manufacture drama. I do not feel the need to defend myself when he is being delusional. I know who I am.
I have also learned that I am the only one responsible for my happiness. If things were to end, which they very well could, then I would be OK. I love him madly, and I would grieve, but I would be OK. I will not sacrifice my mental health to keep a miserable relationship limping along if it gets to that point.
I have also learned that I am the only one responsible for my happiness. If things were to end, which they very well could, then I would be OK. I love him madly, and I would grieve, but I would be OK. I will not sacrifice my mental health to keep a miserable relationship limping along if it gets to that point.