Lonely For Christmas

[Deleted member 12723]

(((Brat))) My heart goes out to you. I hope for you healing deeply in all of these areas. Hugs.

 

[nimkekaa]

Brat

You took care of your children for years. Maybe it's time to take care of yourself. In an ideal world you would have been taken care of through all the pain you went through but you weren't. So you don't need to feel guilty for doing for yourself what is every human beings right.... the right to heal.

Take care of yourself. Hugs if you want them.

 

[ms spock]

Sitting in the chat room, which no one seems to use? *is puzzled*

I will be on my own too this Christmas and New Year's Eve droppingrain.

I also have spent quality time sitting in chat on my own. Let me know and I will pop in sometime when you are around.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Count me in too. I would love to go to chat with you guys.

 

[GreenFrog2]

Are there specific times that people go to chat? I often go there hoping for a chat, but there is never anyone there :(

 

[Deleted member 12723]

People used to go in the evening. I do not know why no one uses chat anymore. We do need a set time to invite people. Are you willing to organize it?

 

[nimkekaa]

Are there specific times that people go to chat?

I agree with Gizmo. We need to organize it. I go in to chat but I'm too impatent to wait for someone to show up. But what are the chance of someone being there the exact second I am?

I can't organize anything right now but I might try in the new year if nobody else wants to.

 

[GreenFrog2]

nimkekaa: Yeah I am usually to impatient to wait as well.

Gizmo: I really don't have the energy to organize anything (hard enough holding myself together most days).

Times for chat: given that we are from all over the world am not sure how that would work???

 

[KatB]

I don't know what I will do for Christmas. Might spend some time with my grandma before my parents get there. Otherwise, I am really out of options. I just thought of seeing the Christmas tree at Rockefeller Center but I don't know...

 

[MouseWedger]

I can empathize with everyone tonight. We celebrated at my parents with my younger siblings tonight and I am supposed to go to my inlaws tomorrow with my husband, though i dont think I will be in any shape to do so. Christmas may not be about getting gifts at the heart of things, but my husband forgot to get my gift for the third year in a row, and has inadvertantly exacerbated my feeling like complete crap. If I can avoid going to my inlaws I will be here tomorrow. Best wishes everyone.

 

[ms spock]

I am in chat now, if anyone is around.

 

[MouseWedger]

Heading there myself shortly. Be forewarned - my Christmas spirit is at an all time low, as is my mood. But I'm here to chat if anyone wants.