@anthony Got overwhelmed to see the huge resource. Thanks! :)
This paragraph is very interesting from the link you shared:
Your choice of "maybe" is right. They(the book) share lack of marital skills, there we go it's upto women/men to develop skills. They haven't talked about cheating directly.
What I wonder, if women/men don't have enough marital skills that might lead to them cheating.
I feel like I need to read the whole book, will do.
This paragraph is very interesting from the link you shared:
In contrast, we hypothesized that dysphoric-borderline batterers come from a background involving parental abuse and rejection. As a result, these men would have difficulty forming a stable, trusting attachment with an intimate partner. Instead, they would be highly dependent on their wives, yet fearful of losing them and very jealous. They would be somewhat impulsive, lack marital skills, and have attitudes hostile toward women and supportive of violence. This group resembles batterers studied by Dutton (1995), who suggested that their early traumatic experiences lead to borderline personality characteristics, anger, and insecure attachment, which, in times of frustration, result in violence against the adult attachment figure (i.e., the wife).
Your choice of "maybe" is right. They(the book) share lack of marital skills, there we go it's upto women/men to develop skills. They haven't talked about cheating directly.
What I wonder, if women/men don't have enough marital skills that might lead to them cheating.
I feel like I need to read the whole book, will do.