Relationship Ptsd Sufferers Who Have Cheated On Their Partners, I Have Questions For You...

[Recovery4Me]

between sufferers and supporters there can be strong disagreement - and both can be right.

And sometimes suffers and supporters titles can be within the same people. Perhaps some of the diversity extends beyond those boxes. Just a thought.

I remember something on your profile once...something to the effect - never a dull moment on a mental health board. :D

Thank you for all that you have done today as always.

 

[Recovery4Me]

@mr_smith_v2 We can agree to disagree...

Nature, nurture, genetics and traits
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[Deleted member 17302]

@mr_smith_v2 We can agree to disagree...

Nature, nurture, genetics and traits...

...Context of what you are replying to please?

 

[Recovery4Me]

Context of what

Context within Post #48
Content within Post #50

 

[Deleted member 17302]

Context within Post #48
Content within Post #50

Considering you are purposely being difficult, I will just ignore the content you posted all together. Oh well.

 

[Recovery4Me]

you are purposely being difficult

No need to snipe Sir.:hug: I do not thwart education...just consider reading the link if you have time. :)

 

[Deleted member 17302]

No need to snipe Sir.:hug: I do not thwart education...just consider reading the link if you have ti...

Not going to happen. No need to read the link. Take a guess why...or don't. Your choice, and to be honest, doesn't matter either way if you do or not.

 

[Deleted member 17302]

Oof. I wish I could edit that last comment. It is all accurate logistically, but it was not needed and harbors too much frustration for no good reason. A lasting record of myself being a wanker for no good reason even if slightly provoked. My restraint needs work and my frustration from external sources directed or mitigated in less stupid ways. My apologies.

 

[Nicolette]

My restraint needs work and my frustration from external sources directed or mitigated in less stupid ways. My apologies.

Thank you. Identifying you need to work on something is half the battle :)

 

[Deleted member 17302]

Thank you. Identifying you need to work on something is half the battle :)

For me, my goal is to oust as much garbage traits throughout life as fast as possible while adding good traits as fast as possible. Studies show that most people can only get to about 25% on their own, 50% with therapy, and 75% if you dedicate your entire existence to it like those monks up in the mountains. Sadly I can only afford the 25% method for now. Better than nothing though. I just want to be the best partner and father I can be. They both deserve only the best and I will never be that but am sure as hell going to try. Sadly this intent is not a supplement for actually accomplishing that feat all at once in the here and now but will be a constant journey until death.

 

[Mytime]

I have read all the back and forth on this thread. A lot of different options back and forth. No right, no wrong

But I do want to knowledge your pain. Your experience is painful. I do wish you the best. You have to experience all the emotions. Hurt, anger,loss,trust,ect. All of it and then see the light on the other side.

 

[Deleted member 17302]

Oh, and I have never cheated in a 23 year old marriage despite many issues with intimacy and trust and...

Can you tell me what thing in your mind pops up when the opportunity of cheating comes up for you in life? I imagine someone has flirted with you and that is when the thing would pop in your head that prevents you from doing anything. What is that thing that pops up?