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[Bfab]

I met my boyfriend online. On our second date, he informed me that he had PTSD. I didn't put much thought into it because I was still getting to know him. After a few more dates, we became closer and he started outpatient treatment.
It's two months and a couple of med adjustments later, we have become exclusive and he is going to an in patient for a month. He is in the military and away from family, so I am his only support system locally. The issues with his treatment have been minor but still frustrating so I feel it would be good for me to develop a support system for myself as he continues treatment.

Thanks for taking time to read my story.

 

[Sweetpea76]

Welcome to the forum!

That is an excellent start. The best thing you can do now is get a support system and learn about PTSD. The best thing I ever did for my relationship was join this forum :)

 

[glass half full]

I met my boyfriend online. On our second date, he informed me that he had PTSD. I didn't put much thought i...

Welcome- you're doing the right thing by educating yourself about PTSD and reaching out for support. You've come to the right place!

 

[Mytime]

You are one step ahead of some of us. I think it's great you are standing by your man. Please read as much as you can. We are here to support you, welcome to the forum.

 

[Bfab]

Thank you for the Welcomes!
Thank you for that feedback Mytime!

I read an article on a different site that adviced not to start a relationship with a PTSD sufferer. It feels good to know that someone thinks I'm making a good decision to continue building our relationship and support him rather than leaving.

 

[glass half full]

Thank you for the Welcomes!
Thank you for that feedback Mytime!

I read an article on a different site th...

Well, just goes to show that you can't believe everything you read in the 'net

 

[glass half full]

Well, just goes to show that you can't believe everything you read in the 'net

I posted sooner than I intended- my Labrador is begging for attention. Just a cautionary head's up. You may find that friends and family members who are usually a valued support team for you will not be as supportive of your PTSD relationship. They just don't understand. As you read more here you'll have a better understanding of why that is. That makes this an excellent choice for you to have been so very proactive in connecting here early in your journey. Many here support a vet, so you will be in very good company.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Welcome to the forum! :hug:

And I agree, the more knowledge and support you have, the easier it will be to support him.

Let me say that you are awesome not running for the hills right when he told you. Im a sufferer and thats what all have done in my life so I think thats amzing of you!

You will find great support here and a wealth of knowledge!

 

[The Albatross]

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[Bfab]

Let me say that you are awesome not running for the hills right when he told you. Im a sufferer and thats what all have done in my life so I think thats amzing of you!

You will find great support here and a wealth of knowledge!

I think anyone doing the work to cope with PTSD are the amazing ones! I truly respect my boyfriend for dealing with his trauma and trusting me to be a part of the process.

I'm sorry people didn't stick by you. Shame on them for not seeing your worth.

 

[intothelight]

Welcome to the forum! :)

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Thank you @Bfab! :hug:

And yes, your boyfriend is amazing!