Luna_Moth
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I’m tired of being nice or honest with people because I end up getting shit on anyway.
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Everyone ends up mistreating me no matter what.
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Rose White
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Understandable. C-PTSD tends to have that effect on people. Feeling used and tossed out. It’s an epic mountain climb to push back against that.
Stop being nice. Don't s..t on people. Just have tough boundaries. We are socialized into being nice aka codependency. Can you educate yourself about traits of safe and unsafe people? About narcissism sociopaths? Personality disorders and other behavioral health issues? Can you just work on you? Creating a life that works for you?
arfie
Diamond Member
i seem to get shit on even more often when i am mean and deceitful.
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Luna_Moth
Silver Member
I have educated myself on it. I also happen to have BPD so you demonizing people with personality disorders has actually managed to make me feel worse.
I understand. I have ptsd
.history of codependency being top nice too helpful no ability to say no. Now my boundaries are tough. I have an app on my phone called I can say. Tracking when I said mo when I did not and why
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