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Not crazy:) Not gonna mention this weekends total mishap but I think a lot of times they will push us so far just to see if we will hang around and put up with it... I dont this they are crazy lol but I do joke with my Vet and tell him he is not wired right lol. Sometimes it is very tiring to...

Summerof77 I read your post and I felt as though I had wrote the whole post from beginning to finish. I have never really defended myself at all with my Vet until the day before yesterday and I lost all cool. Just imagine we are living together and he was pissed because my dog (that has been...

Hmmmm.... Separated again...?

Another sleepless night

Zipperhead! Thank you it is a lot better to comprehend why the hot and cold coming from a vet perspective! So I think I like you wandering over her to the supporters side. I too have wondered to your side also:) You should invite your wife. My Vet gave me a PTSD book after about a month of...

I had to touch on this one because I am also a package deal and my Vet (Staff Sgt) likes to run my house military style (which I like for the most part keeps it organized) however, just last night when my 6yr old daughter fell and hurt herself he said "whenever you walk you should know you could...

Thanks Living4Jesus! I did read it and it helped alot! I already love it on here. It is very hard on weekends because he would not agree with me on this site! He is back now like nothing happened, however, I am noticing he does this about once every two weeks.

Your welcome! I can tell you my vet warned me if he feels close to me he pushes harder away. Maybe the other girl is easier because he is not as close... One could hope...hmmm there is that hope word again

Well darn I stay up half the night listening to him peruse the house but my floors are clean:)

Hey everyone! I have a question is is normal for someone with combat ptsd is stay up all night "protecting the house" and then get in bed as soon as their partner is getting ready for work? If so, any ideas on how to work that intimacy in or do you just not? I need my cuddle bunny vet back:)

Molly, I do not know if you read any of my threads but I was having the same issue and my veteran (what i like to call him) calls last night and says can you make me a chocolate cake and can I come over (btw all his stuff is already at my house he lives there) this is after being gone since...

Very frusterating! My vet called texted last night to tell me I was all he had yet he has been MIA for 3 days now. I wanted to say if I am all you have then where the ##%% have you been for two damn days while I am depressed in bed and crying over you... I just asked if he wanted me to come...

May this helps so much! I was lying in bed at 8 last night so darn depressed and he sends a text at like 11:30 telling me I am all he has then I am thinking WTF then where are you and why aren't you home. So I called him and he said he was at his Sisters and I asked if he wanted me to come...

For all of us!

I wish I was like you! I spout off too easily and my veteran usually says "oh, it is all about you again" this is after I have stroked his ego to know end to not argue... When your guy ditches on you do you call him or wait it out?

Sorry! I totally understand how you feel:( My vet is isolating right now. I am rather new to this I do not know if I should just wait or contact him! It drives me nuts! I hope you can find happiness on your vacation:)

May never apologize for something you do not own... I have learned that! Ms. Positive I really hope it works out for you and all of us actually. My Vet has not been home in two days now... He left his medicine, shaving bag, etc. this tells me he is coming back I think. I have to admit ladies...

Strong! Yes!!! He left yesterday while I was working and I am determined not to contact him first. Seems the closer we get is when he does a 360 and runs but I agree if it is meant to be it will be and he knows how much I am putting up with. I think this is why he runs but you cant force them...

Hope is Huge! I actually had a dear friend of mine ask me "why do you put up with him" my only response was because he is worth it. I have notice so many people are so uneducated while I am still reading everything I can get my hands on I can not be educated enough! My veteran told me he did...

Funny just yesterday I thought the only thing lacking with my Vet and I was the intimacy. I came home my son said he left and said he would come back last night but he didn't I guess he his MIA and will come back when he is ready. I used to die inside thinking it was another woman now I know...

Hi Susan. I was actually posting on this site because I am in love with a veteran who has ptsd but came across your post. Rape is very hard I was raped a month before my 15th birthday and my oldest son who I love dearly is a product of that rape. I am almost 40 now and I did not tell anyone...

I get it:) His cup runneth over!

Thank you for your comment and I am going to read the article as soon as I respond to you! I came home last night and he was gone told my son he would be back but didnt come back... He left his clothes and I am assuming he went to his sister's house I know that it is not another woman I...

I have been dating my Sgt for only 4 months but one thing I know is PTSD is real condition and my Sgt is very sincere. He has been through 3 tours and been in 11 yrs to come home last year and have his dad die in his arms 2 months later from cancer. We moved in together and I have read...

I guess I can begin by saying I met a great man 4 months ago with a huge problem PTSD. I should say we argued during our 1, 2 and 3 date (who the hell does that) which I found just insane but as insane as that was I could not stay away I loved him from the minute I met him! He is an 11 year...