Advice Needed from Iraq Combat Vets with PTSD

[A-RON]

Missy,

I think Tammy's response is worth reading again. It might be hard not to get defensive, but it's worth a shot. With PTSD there's oftentimes a carer, but when it comes to addiction, there's an enabler. I would think a gung-ho, kill-em-all mentality from my carer would enable me to drink. If he needs space, it means you aren't connecting with him in terms of empathy. You might think you understand how he feels, but you don't. If you want to understand, I would suggest finding a counselor for yourself. That counselor might help you to understand your boyfriend better. If you disagree with me, ask a counselor for a second opinion. Go see a counselor. It's the best thing you could do for yourself and for your boyfriend, even if you don't see the reason for it. Best of wishes,

Aaron

 

[Nicolette]

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