Interesting stuff. Thanks for referencing
Wow! That article is so interesting, although it does left me feeling like "I'm in trouble here....my brain is so jacked up because of all of the trauma that I've dealt with that I'll NEVER be right in the head".
I began EMDR about 6 weeks ago, after my Therapist whom I've been seeing for a year decided that my issues were far more complex than she could deal with with cognitive therapy. She doesn't do EMDR, but referred me on to someone else.
So far, I'm still in the 2nd stage, building resources that I can use during the next phase. It's crazy to me how the brain works and can make connections just by bilateral stimulation. But I know it's working, because I'm able to instantly calm myself with my new tools.
I faced multiple childhood traumas, including physical and sexual abuse, and although I'm 50 and am relatively successful in life, my marriage ended after 24 years and I realize I'll never be able to have a healthy adult relationship if I can't resolve those things that are hidden deep in my brain.
So, I appreciate people's comments here. It's good to know I'm not alone.