Hi everyone,
first I must say this forum helped me with many issues about my injured love one and improved our relationship dynamic (right now we are not official couple).
But I am so confused, I am not able to figure out if he thinks we are friends or partners ( I told him few time, that I care about him, I love him and I am there for him and show him with my behavior every day).
There is chemistry, there is perfect communication, we use to sleep together, but then he panicked and stopped comunication.
After month he started comunication on daily basis again (face to face), he talked more about therapy, about bad days ( I never push him, I always let him to start this topic), I started read about ptsd and abandonment issue (trouble with his mother in very young age).
We talk about family, about dreams, about things we like, what we think, we even got sex on phone few times (he said I am scared to be alone with you, because I still want you).
He ask about my oppinion, I ask for his advise. But last two months, He has got trouble to see me in person. It begins with pushing me away, but after one week we talked what happend and he told me, he felt like suffocating from interaction with me. I thanked him for telling me and agreed to keep it on him (how communicate, frequency, "dating"...).
Surprisingly he continues texts me everyday, asking about my day, let me know what he do and usual couple/partners stuff. New thing is, he started to text or to tell me when he got anxiety attacks (only two for last six months! I am so proud of him) I make sure he is safe at home and check on him after few hours ( he always responses). But we spend less time together and I miss him so much. (virtual time is more intensive).
Am I partner or just friend for my injured sunshine? ( We've got relationship for an year)
Looking forward to your help.
Thank you.
(Not native in English, sorry for mistakes)
first I must say this forum helped me with many issues about my injured love one and improved our relationship dynamic (right now we are not official couple).
But I am so confused, I am not able to figure out if he thinks we are friends or partners ( I told him few time, that I care about him, I love him and I am there for him and show him with my behavior every day).
There is chemistry, there is perfect communication, we use to sleep together, but then he panicked and stopped comunication.
After month he started comunication on daily basis again (face to face), he talked more about therapy, about bad days ( I never push him, I always let him to start this topic), I started read about ptsd and abandonment issue (trouble with his mother in very young age).
We talk about family, about dreams, about things we like, what we think, we even got sex on phone few times (he said I am scared to be alone with you, because I still want you).
He ask about my oppinion, I ask for his advise. But last two months, He has got trouble to see me in person. It begins with pushing me away, but after one week we talked what happend and he told me, he felt like suffocating from interaction with me. I thanked him for telling me and agreed to keep it on him (how communicate, frequency, "dating"...).
Surprisingly he continues texts me everyday, asking about my day, let me know what he do and usual couple/partners stuff. New thing is, he started to text or to tell me when he got anxiety attacks (only two for last six months! I am so proud of him) I make sure he is safe at home and check on him after few hours ( he always responses). But we spend less time together and I miss him so much. (virtual time is more intensive).
Am I partner or just friend for my injured sunshine? ( We've got relationship for an year)
Looking forward to your help.
Thank you.
(Not native in English, sorry for mistakes)
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