I went out on medical retirement 4 years ago, and then had a year of staying in the house and watching my life dissolve away. I then had the opportunity to fill in as a secretary and it went well. I have worked there for 4 years now. I might not look like the typical secretary, but it has become my life. I rather be at work than at home now, since at work I don't have to worry about what to do...I know what to do and have a great boss for the first time in my life. I just don't think the boss would understand if I started working weekends just so I felt better. I like to be home when my son is with me, but if it's just me, then it's liking having pandora's box sitting next to me. Work is great, especially when you find the opportunity to be creative in the work place and ideas are not just thrown to the side like in the government sector.