OMgosh! Bless your heart!! I'm sending over a wheel of cheese, a case of crackers or a few crusty loaves of bread, and the kind of "whine" that will have you relaxed in a jiffy. Though, on second thought, wine is not good for migraines. Then again, neither is cheese. How about some pretzels and a tall cool one or six? i.e. a nice 6 pack of Michelob?
Also, have you ever tried Volteran for your carpal tunnel? I use it on my neck and shoulder for wicked soft tissues/muscle pain and it does help. Maybe your doctor has samples? Just a thought. I have the numbness and pain in my hands/wrists/forearms as well, and just try to limit my use of them. Also getting major pain in my thumb joints now. The joys of getting older!
Best to you and hoping you find some relief sooner rather than later. Oh yes, BTW - the eye stuff..........please, I'd have taken 3 Xanax.