Sexual Assault Audible Orgasm During Rape

joeylittle

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Now that has happend To me, imagon the humiliation for a teen girl being raped analy beaten by a older man and never recieve any justice no compansation
I'm sorry that happened to you.
Its just not fair being raped beaten threatned with wepon raped analy recieve no justice he walk free no compensation whatsoever having to watch other girls getting justice huge compensations for rapes far less brutal that also made them aroused???
Arousal doesn't mean pleasurable or even enjoyable. I don't think anyone on this thread is talking about enjoyment or pleasure. Physical arousal and orgasm can happen while also being raped and afraid for your own survival.

I do understand why you'd be upset by the idea of other people enjoying a sexual encounter and later claiming it was rape, especially when you've not been able to see justice in your case. I just don't think that's what is being talked about in this thread.
 

Movingforward10

MyPTSD Pro
Now that has happend To me, imagon the humiliation for a teen girl being raped analy beaten by a older man and never recieve any justice no compansation watching other girls getting justice a huge compensation for a less sadistic rape that also gave them some Form of pleasure like arousal.
What happened to you is terrible. Anal rape survivor here too, along with other rape and assaults. And it is totally unfair that some people are in prison and others aren't. No one who raped or abused me is in prison (but I never went to the police).
But it's not the rape victims fault if one person is convicted and the other isn't.

Adding in orgasm to a rape and knowing how disgusting rape is: orgasm is just chance at times. It adds a sadistic layer in a way.

I think your anger is justified. But to put it to other rape survivors is misplaced.
 

osiris

MyPTSD Pro
I just find It a bit odd, i cant imagine how. its disgusting being raped, i asume if a person orgasm and Is aroused from being raped, and there Is no physical violence or wepons involved It should not be considerd a aggravated rape.

Aggravated rape Is painfull humiliating sadistic not pleasurable. I think to be aroused from being raped require that the person has had some serious fantasy about being raped previously.
I’m sorry for what happened to you.

But rape is rape.

It is hard enough to get people to believe it happened sometimes. And if other people who have been raped say it’s not rape, or serious enough, or must have been a fantasy, how can we even begin to believe the rest of society will take it seriously?

I hope you find some way to feel better, when the people who hurt us aren’t brought to justice it can feel like a very bleak landscape.
 

joeylittle

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NotWeakNotStupid

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I'm curious about what an "audible orgasm" is, i know that women moan a lot during vagina/clitoral stimulation, but is there a certain kind of moan that can be attributed to an orgasm? Maybe these people who hear you "orgasm" just hear you moan, and maybe you were faking it.

I've read that it's pretty common for women to enjoy a rape partially, and also a pretty huge number of women develop rape fantasies partially because sex tends to be exciting. I don't think we should ever blame ourselves for the things that other people do, and sometimes not even blame other people for what they do if there are alternatives.

This is actually vefy adaptive and hou should feel proud of yourself. Here's why. In the animal kingdom females make noise during sex that alerts the other males to come fight for her so that she might have the strongest mate and offspring. These noises in turn make the current male ejaculate faster so that he can impregnate the female before other males can come and fight him off. Our biology is designed to know that female sexual noises encourage male orgasm, so making noise during your rape may very well have ended it sooner. Plus, orgasms increase lubrication and loosen the vagina, making vigorous intercourse more comfortable and less likely to cause physical damage. Your have nothing to be ashamed of; your body is smart and was protecting you. Maybe one day you will be able to thank it for helping you survive xoxo
one version of "why" i've read is so that other men in tribe come and join, but that explanation also makes a lot of sense.
 

Movingforward10

MyPTSD Pro
I've read that it's pretty common for women to enjoy a rape partially,
Language is really important. "enjoy" rape?
I'm yet to meet someone who enjoyed rape. Orgasm doesn't mean enjoyment.

and also a pretty huge number of women develop rape fantasies partially because sex tends to be exciting
Language again is important here. You're implying rape is exciting and women get turned on by being raped?
Your comments are misplaced at best.
Rape is not exciting. It is horrific, scary, violating, fearful of your life, painful, humiliating, any other number of things but exciting it is absolutely not.
Any rape survivor can tell you that, female or other genders.
 

joeylittle

Administrator
Well-said @Movingforward10.

@NotWeakNotStupid -
one version of "why" i've read is so that other men in tribe come and join, but that explanation also makes a lot of sense.
I'm going to say to you what I said to the poster you quoted:

Rape is not sex. Rape is violent physical assault. It's an expression of power, control, anger.

The notion of "increased lubrication through vigorous intercourse" may be true of lions, but it's not de facto true of human beings.

Calling the rest of the tribe? Again - you are confusing rape with sex, and you're confusing violent assault with survival of the species.

Please do not continue. Threadbanned.

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