Sexual Assault Audible Orgasm During Rape

[Movingforward10]

Ok. Let's break this post down.

evolutionary perspectiv

It's 2023. We have brains. We use them. It's not the prehistoric era.

rape/forced sex

What?

absolutely a reproductive strategy

What on earth? A reproductive strategy is not using contraception in heterosexual sex.
Anything else, what you're talking about is not that!

low-status males.

What even?!

It's seen across many species

What on earth too?

And how is any of this to do with the OP's original topic?

 

[Friday]

Mod Note

This thread is not a place for confusing humans and animals, nor is it a place for justifying rape or sexual assault.

If anyone wants to talk about evolutionary theory or justifications for sexual assault they can do so elsewhere.

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@Movingforward10 You're fine, as you replied before this notice went up. And are completely correct, this has nothing to do with the OP or their topic.

 

[Historian]

I just find It a bit odd, i cant imagine how. its disgusting being raped, i asume if a person orgasm and Is aroused from being raped, and there Is no physical violence or wepons involved It should not be considerd a aggravated rape.

Aggravated rape Is painfull humiliating sadistic not pleasurable. I think to be aroused from being raped require that the person has had some serious fantasy about being raped previously.

Its extremly unfair if a person Is sent to prison for raping a woman without beating her or using any wepons and giving her arousal and orgasm, but someone who rapes a woman analy beat her use wepons make her feel only pain Is walking free.

Now that has happend To me, imagon the humiliation for a teen girl being raped analy beaten by a older man and never recieve any justice no compansation watching other girls getting justice a huge compensation for a less sadistic rape that also gave them some Form of pleasure like arousal.

Its just not fair being raped beaten threatned with wepon raped analy recieve no justice he walk free no compensation whatsoever having to watch other girls getting justice huge compensations for rapes far less brutal that also made them aroused???

I have to assume from your narrative phrasing and repeated references to “compensation” for rapes (as in multiple women’s cases) that you may be referring to a culture where compensation to a girl or her family is an alternative to criminal charges, which has justifiably made you angry and bitter. But you should NOT allow anyone who abused and raped you to convince you that any “compensation” could make what happened to you acceptable or less criminal. It does NOT!

 

[ttt]

rape is rape. it has absolutely nothing to do with you getting orgasm or not

 

[beaneeboo]

Very different experience but you asked for experiences and I have one. this is incredibly hard for me to talk about.

I was 6. And I made a noise and he told me I was "going to get us both in trouble." I remember really trying to be quite because I was scared of him. I orgasimed and could not help but made a noise. I was holding my breath and try to be quite and couldn't.

I still get pretty triggered by the noises I still make when I orgasime. And it sucks I try and avoid making noises even now. And I have a lot of shame around that. I don't have a partner now and I'm really afraid to get one. I don't want anyone else to hear me. The thought of that scares me. Makes me feel like I'm going to "get in trouble." Even though I know that's not logical.

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know that part has been the hardest for me to deal with. It's not your fault. but I know how hard it can be to convince yourself that. Because I couldn't help but be loud is kinda a hard pill to swallow. Because it's something that should be good. You want to be so excited you can't help but vocalize in a safe consensual setting. This wasn't a that setting. Your brain pulled the rip cord and your body was trying to protect itself.

I feel a lot of shame around this also. Because I didn't orgasime when he was doing stuff to me. I got really aroused and afterwards brought me to the bathroom. (he was just supposed to walk me there) and I mastubated for the first time because I was aroused and needed to pee but couldn't. I was 6 and didn't understand and I wouldn't have been aroused if he didn't do what he did. But ya the shame is real.

I made a noise and he banged on the metal door and scream at me "your going to get us both in trouble" it was a lot. I didn't know what an orgasime was. all I knew is I felt really good and I made a loud noise when I happened. I was also in a lot of pain because of both what he did and how rough I was with myself.

ya the moment I actually made noises is one of the moments I have the most shame around in my life. It's shame and fear mixed together. I haven't really heard anyone talk about vocalizing either. Thanks for sharing your experience. Made me feel a little less alone. I hope this does the same for you.



Um ya, and women, and in my case an 11 year old boy... um and presumably any other type of person.

Don't get me wrong in a lot of cases it is men. And it's definitely a problem deeply rooted in patriarchy. And most of the time statistically ya... but just not always.

And I saw a few people already say women. I just thought I would throw in older children as well because why not.

Totally agree. Saying rapists are men is only a part of reality. Men, women, family members, friend, strangers....of all sexes rape... what a sad sentence to write..

Like madmaninabox, i have also been raped by a minor, as have others here, and I also orgasmed and this has also caused life long shame and problems in intimacy as well as self hate...

 

[Anon(0-0)]

I hate that it felt “good”. i hate that I moaned loudly. I am with you; it did NOT make what he did okay. Despite the fact it was rape, rape is a sex crime, and your body will respond to stimuli no matter how horrible it feels. rape Is rape, no matter if you orgasmed or not.

 

[SeaLionMan1982]

Anyone else embarrassed for how your body reacts even during consensual activity? I've had some embarrassing things happen.

 

[SeaLionMan1982]

Kinda hurt that no one has responded back about what I posted.

 

[Friday]

Kinda hurt that no one has responded back about what I posted.

Mod Note : New messages buried deep in old threads are often missed by members. I would suggest you start a thread of your own, if you’re looking to engage with members.

 

[Movingforward10]

Kinda hurt that no one has responded back about what I posted.

Like @Friday said, it's best, even if it's hard, to start your own thread about it.
Threads tend to be for the person who started it, so going on another topic (like my post here!) is taking away from the OP's need for the thread.
What you asked is an incredibly valuable discussion and if you start a thread, I'm sure lots of us would respond as it would resonate, and we could share.