Supporter Boyfriend With Combat Ptsd

[Luz]

Hello.. First time here.

I've been on and off with my partner for about 2 years and a half. I met him when he just got out of the army and was going through a divore. Once I met him I was for sure I wanted to be with him.

We started dating for a week and then he would just push me away and tell me he didn't want to be with me. Then a few weeks later he would come back. This just kept happening..and recently in December we got back together.

Everything was great. He was showing much love and was just a great man. In March, just out of nowhere, he complete ignored me and the next day he just told me he didn't want to be with me; doesn't love me; and he just can't be my man.

I'm just so upset and lost. I know its a roller coaster with him and I am going to support him and stick with him. Just wondering if it will get better? I just want him to be happy and enjoy life and not damn it for what he went through. :(

 

[intothelight]

Welcome to the PTSD Forum! :)

 

[KP the nut]

Hi and welcome to the forum.

 

[dms]

Welcome Luz, Your going to need therapy while you stay on the roller coaster. It's a horrible ride. My prayers! Your in the right place to vent and get advice.

 

[Luz]

Thank u soo much.. it is getting harder.. venting and getting advice will help me.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Welcome to the forum. :)

 

[Deleted member 19035]

Hello and welcome. I hope you find lots of support here. Take care.