I've been searching for another venue for support for awhile. I made a better effort the last few days because I feel an impending meltdown coming and the suicidal thoughts have been stronger than usual and I am fairly nomadic with very poor health insurance, so finding a regular therapist is tiresome and frustrating.
A quick rundown of my history:
I had a terrible boss, who I eventually had to report for harassment. A few months later, I was struggling with life and decided that I should start therapy. About a year into therapy, I took the MMSE and received my complex PTSD diagnosis. My therapist wasn't a trauma specialist and I wasn't entirely sure what the diagnosis meant . Fast forward a few years (continuing with the same therapist all the while), I eventually left my job because I was struggling so much to let go of the past with the former boss, so I decided to pursue medicine, the career path I was on in college, but abandoned along the way. At my age and the jump in fields, I had to seek an overseas school. I thought the new career and environment would help leave the past behind - but my diagnosis followed me. I struggled a lot with my classmates and the school administration, had an fwb turn sour to the point where I attempted suicide, and finally date rape - that brought me to my lowest point about a year into my program. I took a leave of absence from school and went to a trauma center to try to figure out more to this PTSD thing and how to get my life on track. The center was helpful and I learned a lot from others in treatment. I also uncovered a lot of pieces to my past that had contributed to the development of the c-ptsd. I went back to school, spent most of my time locked up in my house avoiding the outside world and struggling to keep my focus and attention on my studies. I passed the first two years of school and I'm in the US to start years 3 and 4 for clinical rotations. As far as I've come, I'm still having a really hard time and am wondering what to do with myself or really just how much more I can stand feeling so weak and isolated. I have a hard time finding people outside of those that I met at the trauma center who understand me to the point that I often wonder that even the c-ptsd might be the wrong diagnosis (but I think that's too much of me stuck in my own head).
What I uncovered in treatment - many years of emotional neglect, abuse, and abandonment by my parents, sexual assault at a younger age with continued poor choice in emotionally abusive partners and at least another 10 cases of assault, lived overseas in a socially & politically volatile country under extreme conditions for 3 years, and abuse and harassment in places of work and study. I think that's the general picture without getting into too much detail.
As I've stated, I feel like I'm heading in the wrong direction and my emotional stress is back at an all time high. I'm trying to be proactive to avoid falling down the dark hole and into the vortex. For the past couple of weeks, (possibly months? years?), I'm feeling very alone in the world. That's my intro. Much appreciation and thanks for those who read this.
A quick rundown of my history:
I had a terrible boss, who I eventually had to report for harassment. A few months later, I was struggling with life and decided that I should start therapy. About a year into therapy, I took the MMSE and received my complex PTSD diagnosis. My therapist wasn't a trauma specialist and I wasn't entirely sure what the diagnosis meant . Fast forward a few years (continuing with the same therapist all the while), I eventually left my job because I was struggling so much to let go of the past with the former boss, so I decided to pursue medicine, the career path I was on in college, but abandoned along the way. At my age and the jump in fields, I had to seek an overseas school. I thought the new career and environment would help leave the past behind - but my diagnosis followed me. I struggled a lot with my classmates and the school administration, had an fwb turn sour to the point where I attempted suicide, and finally date rape - that brought me to my lowest point about a year into my program. I took a leave of absence from school and went to a trauma center to try to figure out more to this PTSD thing and how to get my life on track. The center was helpful and I learned a lot from others in treatment. I also uncovered a lot of pieces to my past that had contributed to the development of the c-ptsd. I went back to school, spent most of my time locked up in my house avoiding the outside world and struggling to keep my focus and attention on my studies. I passed the first two years of school and I'm in the US to start years 3 and 4 for clinical rotations. As far as I've come, I'm still having a really hard time and am wondering what to do with myself or really just how much more I can stand feeling so weak and isolated. I have a hard time finding people outside of those that I met at the trauma center who understand me to the point that I often wonder that even the c-ptsd might be the wrong diagnosis (but I think that's too much of me stuck in my own head).
What I uncovered in treatment - many years of emotional neglect, abuse, and abandonment by my parents, sexual assault at a younger age with continued poor choice in emotionally abusive partners and at least another 10 cases of assault, lived overseas in a socially & politically volatile country under extreme conditions for 3 years, and abuse and harassment in places of work and study. I think that's the general picture without getting into too much detail.
As I've stated, I feel like I'm heading in the wrong direction and my emotional stress is back at an all time high. I'm trying to be proactive to avoid falling down the dark hole and into the vortex. For the past couple of weeks, (possibly months? years?), I'm feeling very alone in the world. That's my intro. Much appreciation and thanks for those who read this.
