Sufferer Can Someone Please Help Me. (very Complex Situation)

[Deleted member 28862]

@otakujome yes private chat is okay. I love tea :D I would love to move but being the person I am that'll be really hard. Just a while ago I went to the convenience store to get minutes for my phone and a loud guy came in and stood behind me, I got anxiety and bolted out. I hate leaving me house honestly. But we can PM

 

[Flower Power]

Many men play on the weakness of an abused woman because they know we can collapse and dissasociate and they can force their agenda because we dissappear. It doesn't sound like this man you are discussing gives a rat's but about you and only wants what he wants. To minimize you and blames you as selfish for not meeting his needs is immaturity at the highest level. Heal yourself and you will find that you will attract me that are attracted to that and not re-victimizing you because of your vulnerability. I swear they can smell our history and it really ticks me off.

 

[Deleted member 28862]

Many men play on the weakness of an abused woman because they know we can collapse and dissasociate...

Thanks, It really helps that almost a year later I'm still getting help on this situation. But since the day I signed up her and posted this I haven't talked to this dude, I've seen him time to time because he works in the are I live but I don't even take time to look at him. But you're right, he's scum and I pray that I'll find a someone who's truley there for me.