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This is really helpful @joeylittle , thank you. It gives me another side to it. I don't know if pushy is so good for me right now, and it was very pushy - but I will see how that all works out. I got an email of 'I understand. I hope B feels better' as he actually had an IBS attack yesterday so that was part of my email to her yesterday.
I suppose it may seem like I said maybe (although the word was no, can't make it) but I will need to check to see if I left an opening there for 'I really want to come but'.
I think more to the point, I need to stop, think things through first, (regarding triggers), and make certain that I direct where I am going. Since it can't be to a house perhaps I need to suggest first off where I am comfortable going. I freeze like a deer in headlights when someone invites me somewhere and for some reason the synapses don't connect that I have issues I have to keep away from right now. Maybe taking more control would be a better thing. Thanks so much.
@FridayJones - I see nothing. Did you edit it right out?
I suppose it may seem like I said maybe (although the word was no, can't make it) but I will need to check to see if I left an opening there for 'I really want to come but'.
I think more to the point, I need to stop, think things through first, (regarding triggers), and make certain that I direct where I am going. Since it can't be to a house perhaps I need to suggest first off where I am comfortable going. I freeze like a deer in headlights when someone invites me somewhere and for some reason the synapses don't connect that I have issues I have to keep away from right now. Maybe taking more control would be a better thing. Thanks so much.
@FridayJones - I see nothing. Did you edit it right out?
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