I have this issue too. My school work and homework is meticulously organized so much so that other students notice and one of my friends told me she could see me being a perfectionist and school work oblivious means a great deal to me.
I really do want my house to be cleaner. I can see my home being just as organized as my school work, just as planned out and thought of.
So far I lack time being so busy trying to get the highest grades I can. Currently my house as never been worse. But also I lack motivation. And I am sick of my husband ignoring all the things he should do, me having to do them. It gets annoying having to pick up after him. It gets annoying that he can not even put some laundry in the washing machine (he doesn't know how to turn it on and blows me off when I try to show him). Me knowing that it doesn't matter if I work, go to school and have three kids; he wont change.
I get disheartened. I am hoping this summer I can clean everything and get caught up.