Sufferer Codependant Addict

[Deleted member 28403]

I'm glad that you are recognizing that not everything is your fault and moving from that thinking :hug: I hope its getting better

 

[Deleted member 33052]

@mary1979 Oh, Mary, I don't have words to tell you how sad I am for you. You deserved so much more from life! You deserved unconditional love. You deserved the opportunity to trust. You deserved to feel safe. :'(

Your gentle, beautiful soul has been kicked around like garbage, and now you are left looking down at the broken pieces of your life. You need to start healing your soul and your shame. I will do whatever I can to help you on your healing journey. (((hug)))

 

[Deleted member 33052]

You are dead right, and he is the main reason that I want to get help, I want to be the wife he needs m...

Neither of you made this mess - you are both victims. Remember that.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Welcome to the forums :hug: I hope this place helps you. It's very useful because of the bulk amount of people who feel similar and understand. There is a lot of advice and support to be found here :) I hope that this amazing community helps you as much as it helped me, reading all the similar stories, and learning a lot along the way. Hugs if you accept :hug: