I do this, however, these tend to be people I just won't give a break to period. I have made my judgement and past experience and inside information later has proved me correct that they are the worst of the worst. This is not to say I have not been drawn to my own particular breed of abusers (my own worst of the worst, ugh!), I have, but with these people instantly there is a clash of personalities that takes place without a word.However there are a few people that I just instinctively don't like.... that puts that protective shield round me and I try not to show it. I do not engage with these people and just stay quietly in the background watching and waiting...
It's an instant hatred that I feel, I can't explain it, even as I write this I can visualize every one of them that has crossed my path with their arm slung over some poor abused beaten down soul. I just want to slapped that smug smirk off their face and grab that other person out from their reach to safety.
Wow, must be some left over issues :thinking: