anthony
Founder
Mate, sorry to hear that. I know what your saying, except when I divorced, it was my doing, not my ex-wifes. I felt what your feeling, except I was still in the army at that stage, and with PTSD, its just I didn't know why I was drinking myself stupid and smoking like a chimney.
I thought disappearing would make everything better for me also, but it didn't, nor for anyone who was concerned about me.
Is there still chance for resolution?
My wife now was nearly ready to boot me when my life was upside down, but she gave me an alternative, where either I get out, or I get help. I took the help road, and here I am today. Maybe if you talk with your wife about getting help, follow it through, and show her that you care about her by careing about yourself. You get better from the worst of PTSD, generally so do relationships.
I thought disappearing would make everything better for me also, but it didn't, nor for anyone who was concerned about me.
Is there still chance for resolution?
My wife now was nearly ready to boot me when my life was upside down, but she gave me an alternative, where either I get out, or I get help. I took the help road, and here I am today. Maybe if you talk with your wife about getting help, follow it through, and show her that you care about her by careing about yourself. You get better from the worst of PTSD, generally so do relationships.