ninja
Sponsor
It could be that she isn't (or doesn't seem to be) as concerned about helping you get stabilized? Jumping into it all with those direct words could be destabilizing, and it may be that you are ready for some of that now after the stabilization you've done with previous T's. Or perhaps not. . . or both simultaneously! Pushing from a place of kindness can be helpful, but knowing it is okay to rest and pull back sometimes is needed too.