I don't know how you got that
this post I made was a personal attack. I'm talking about the larger conversation about things I hear many white people say. Some here on this thread, many more out in the world. And I wrote my thoughts on those stances. That's it.
Offensive? I'm disagreeing. If disagreeing and expressing it overtly isn't acceptable on this site, then I've been using the wrong criteria for moderating for a loooong time.
No. I'm not going to check my anger on the topic. I'm angry, and it's alright that I'm angry. But it's at a much broader audience, and it's at common ways of thinking, not your person or self.
Certainly, nowhere did I bash your character.
Look - it's a really hard topic. I do get it. But the rules of the site apply to all, equally - even me as an Admin. We don't moderate for tone, it's alright to disagree, it's alright to challenge, and it's a pretty wide latitude for
all members when it comes to saying what's on your mind.
I think the biggest thing you and I (
@TruthSeeker and
@joeylittle ) disagree on is, the inclusivity concept and seeing skin color. I've gotten to some real clarity for myself around these topics as a result of the events of the last week.
For me - I used to try and believe that skin color didn't matter....but I've always struggled to reconcile the very real context - historic, geopolitical context - that is often attached to skin color. And in my own line of work....race and ethnicity do come into the landscape - very similar to how you
@TruthSeeker describe your years as a teacher.
I've come to an understanding that a better goal is to strive to recognize humanity
alongside recognizing race and heritage - as opposed to leaving behind race/heritage
in order to reach a common humanity. That's why I say that skin color does matter. It's allowed to matter. I think that when we (societal 'we') try and 'ignore' it, we are actually
dismissing something that can and should be acknowledged and respected, and celebrated. The impetus behind the not seeing color idea isn't malicious - but a seriously unfortunate by-product of it is, it erases a very real part of a person's identity. Their history.